It's so sad. I invited my daughter's father to the ultrasound today. He showed up. He didn't even want to sit next to…
It's so sad. I invited my daughter's father to the ultrasound today. He showed up. He didn't even want to sit next to me. He didn't acknowledge me in the waiting room. During the ultrasound he was on his phone. It ended, and he gave me a hug and told me he was going to go see Star Wars right after my appointment. All he asked was "how do you know if the baby is going to be cute or not?"
It's unbelievable. He doesn't care. It's ok if he doesn't care about me, but the baby. It hurts. So now I'm driving home and had to pull over because I'm crying my eyes out. This is so painful
Xochilt 🌻·
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I will gracias 😊 @hernandez,
jessica·
d nada Mija just make sure they do sum
Xochilt 🌻·
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Gracias por hablar conmigo, i really appreciate it ☺️ @hernandez,
Xochilt 🌻·
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Thank you, it means a lot 💕 @iesha8708,
iesha H·
It will get better ❤️
jessica·
yes girl diles asi pake sepas
Xochilt 🌻·
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I hope que todo salga bien ❤️❤️❤️ for you and your baby. I'm going to ask my doctor 👨⚕️ tomorrow @hernandez,
jessica·
it's scary but she said they have to tell u the worst case first ...so she said I had this thing called Polyhydamnios
Xochilt 🌻·
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Oh my 😥😥😥😢😢😢I'm so sorry. I really hope that never happens with your baby. That's scary to hear :(( @hernandez,
jessica·
so I already had u/s and stress test on Thursday I have to go every Thursday
jessica·
the specialist told me I have to have weekly u/s and stress test they have to tell u the worst she said bby can be stillborn my cord can slip out my water can bk at any time
Xochilt 🌻·
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What did she tell you? @hernandez,
Xochilt 🌻·
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No she didn't say anything about it. Well the one who told me was the ultrasound technician 👩🏻🔧 not the doctor herself. I have an appointment with my doctor, we'll see 😬 @hernandez,
jessica·
I went to see a specialist and she told me different
jessica·
do u have to see a specialist
Xochilt 🌻·
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Yeah today at my ultrasound! She said that I've been eating too much sugar which makes amniotic fluid become too much and makes the baby's heartbeat faster. She also said it will be painful for me @hernandez :(
Xochilt 🌻·
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It is 😔 @jsco thanks she already is! :) she keeps me going
Jorja Green·
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aw I'm so sorry 😔 that must be very tough. your baby will love you unconditionally and will hopefully show you everything will be alright!
jessica·
fluid
jessica·
the dr told u that u had to much amniotic
Xochilt 🌻·
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You're right ❤️🌺 @hernandez,
jessica·
well as long as ur happy the bby will be happy ...
Xochilt 🌻·
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Thank you for the reminder, I want to be happy for my baby:) @hernandez,
jessica·
men can be soean sometimes but put ur foot down be strong for the bby remember bby can feel ur feelings
Xochilt 🌻·
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😢😢😢 thank you ❤️ @hernandez,
jessica·
Im so sorry boo
Xochilt 🌻·
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Aw well I'm glad you have someone ! :) and for your son as well. I wish you the best ❤️❤️@beanieboo
HannaRose~SheWhoDreams~·
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its w.e.. at least my son will have a father figure, my bf in his life. so very lucky with that. :) hes been there
Xochilt 🌻·
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@beanieboo that's how I feel. I want to try for my daughter not for me but for her. But he is making it so hard. I'm so sorry you're going through this
Xochilt 🌻·
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I'm so sorry you're going through the same thing. I wouldn't wish this upon anyone. I hope it does really. Thank you for words feel free to message me as well! ❤️ @rmreed
HannaRose~SheWhoDreams~·
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people tell me I shouldnt even bother with my baby father. I cant change him. And why would I want to work to keep him around baby life if he just causes stresses. stuff like that I guess. mine made me cry a lot too. and he never been to appointment.
Xochilt 🌻·
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Exactly it doesn't make sense to me why he would do that. At least he made it clear to me that he doesn't want anything. @carlitojrmami
Rachel·
Been there, and going through it. This made me cry because I know the pain so well. It's the fact they could honestly not care for their own children. Ive had to pull over way too many times to cry, it gets easier. Message me if you need anything, be strong.
Xochilt 🌻·
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😭 I'm holding my tears back @beanieboo
bbbbb888·
i didn't see the point of him showing up if he was going act like that . he shouldn't of came.
HannaRose~SheWhoDreams~·
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:(