It's so sad. I invited my daughter's father to the ultrasound today. He showed up. He didn't even want to sit next to me. He didn't acknowledge me in the waiting room. During the ultrasound he was on his phone. It ended, and he gave me a hug and told me he was going to go see Star Wars right after my appointment. All he asked was "how do you know if the baby is going to be cute or not?"
It's unbelievable. He doesn't care. It's ok if he doesn't care about me, but the baby. It hurts. So now I'm driving home and had to pull over because I'm crying my eyes out. This is so painful
Комментарии
Gracias por hablar conmigo, i really appreciate it ☺️ @hernandez,
I hope que todo salga bien ❤️❤️❤️ for you and your baby. I'm going to ask my doctor 👨⚕️ tomorrow @hernandez,
it's scary but she said they have to tell u the worst case first ...so she said I had this thing called Polyhydamnios
Oh my 😥😥😥😢😢😢I'm so sorry. I really hope that never happens with your baby. That's scary to hear :(( @hernandez,
so I already had u/s and stress test on Thursday I have to go every Thursday
the specialist told me I have to have weekly u/s and stress test they have to tell u the worst she said bby can be stillborn my cord can slip out my water can bk at any time
No she didn't say anything about it. Well the one who told me was the ultrasound technician 👩🏻🔧 not the doctor herself. I have an appointment with my doctor, we'll see 😬 @hernandez,
Yeah today at my ultrasound! She said that I've been eating too much sugar which makes amniotic fluid become too much and makes the baby's heartbeat faster. She also said it will be painful for me @hernandez :(
It is 😔 @jsco thanks she already is! :) she keeps me going
aw I'm so sorry 😔 that must be very tough. your baby will love you unconditionally and will hopefully show you everything will be alright!
Thank you for the reminder, I want to be happy for my baby:) @hernandez,
men can be soean sometimes but put ur foot down be strong for the bby remember bby can feel ur feelings
Aw well I'm glad you have someone ! :) and for your son as well. I wish you the best ❤️❤️@beanieboo
its w.e.. at least my son will have a father figure, my bf in his life. so very lucky with that. :) hes been there
@beanieboo that's how I feel. I want to try for my daughter not for me but for her. But he is making it so hard. I'm so sorry you're going through this
I'm so sorry you're going through the same thing. I wouldn't wish this upon anyone. I hope it does really. Thank you for words feel free to message me as well! ❤️ @rmreed
people tell me I shouldnt even bother with my baby father. I cant change him. And why would I want to work to keep him around baby life if he just causes stresses. stuff like that I guess. mine made me cry a lot too. and he never been to appointment.
Exactly it doesn't make sense to me why he would do that. At least he made it clear to me that he doesn't want anything. @carlitojrmami
Been there, and going through it. This made me cry because I know the pain so well. It's the fact they could honestly not care for their own children. Ive had to pull over way too many times to cry, it gets easier. Message me if you need anything, be strong.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Rant
My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So upset 😔 baby had the umbilical cord in between it's legs and up it's back, so gender was not visible. Not only that but the person who did the ultrasound told us NOTHING. He didn't show us the screen. He didn't tell us how far along the baby was measuring and he didn't tell us if he saw anything. NOTHING. Not a word left his mouth while we were there. The room was silent the entire time.
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
I will gracias 😊 @hernandez,