My SO told me he wants me to move out because I slept on the couch because he refuses to have sex with me. Okay c ya!…

Maybe he has depression... dads get post partum too. He might not be adjusting well to new baby... I know it's heated at the moment but when things cool down you should try to have a deeper conversation. Good luck! He will come around!

@nrob111, we been fighting about this since a year before I got pregnant....and we fight about it every few months now

Aww that's a shame... I'm in a similar situation and know how frustrating it is. It's so important to have that physical connection too. My husband was checked for thyroid issues and those meds seemed to give him more energy and sex drive. But with a baby who never sleeps... sex is impossible most of the time. 😫

@ladybug91, yeah I'm the one with the thyroid problems and no energy. He literally has no excuse. He tried telling me he lost his sex drive completely when he turned 30. That's not an excuse. I can't marry a man who doesn't want to have sex and we're not even married yet. He refuses to meet my needs. I do everything for him and everything to make him feel better and all I get is bitched at and turned down.

@ladybug91, he's going to lose his family because he doesn't want to have sex. And I'm not ashamed to tell the world that a guy is losing his family for that reason. Ive lost weight, Ive gained weight, I'm extremely confident and saying he's getting the better end of the deal here, he's 6 ft tall and weighs 130 lbs not many women like a man that's made of NOTHING. It's embarrassing for him. And I'm done. I'm going to take these next few months to find a job, get my bills figured out, and find a house

Well it sounds like you've made up your mind. I totally agree and think your reasoning is completely valid! We are sexual by nature. You deserve good sex girlfriend! I was just trying to see if other issues were going on before encouraging you to leave. Lol

@ladybug91, I wish there was something that could be fixed but the truth of it all is that he just uses me. I take care of the entire household and take care of our son 24/7, he always tells me he wouldn't know how to even care for our son if I wasn't around. Ontop of that I do everything in my power to make him feel better when he's sad or angry about anything and his back hurts and I rub it without request. I asked for the first back rub since I was pregnant the other day and he bitched and complained multiple times that night before even doing it for less than 5 minutes. He feels that since I stay home with our son and don't bring in money that I don't deserve breaks but wants me to find a hobby but the hobby must include our child so he doesn't have to watch him. When the reality of it is I was making almost as much as him at my job and he decided it was best for me to stay home with our son so he wasn't raised in a daycare....

maybe he has trouble with getting hard or keeping hard?

@dawnrose, Ive suggested the little blue pill and he looks at me like I'm nuts

maybe hes actually gay? lol ive never heard of a guy who turns down sex

@tiannad426, right! My mother and old coworker said the same thing

I was thinking the same thing as @tiannad426

@growingmisscharley, @tiannad426, well I did manage to get some tonight after making up so if he does like guys then he likes both😂

Haha well at least you got you some 😂😂😂

@trice4990 i mean... a hole is a hole!! 😂😂

@tiannad426, ewww so true🙈

@trice4990 fingers crossed thankyou!