Ever have a bad gut feeling about your husband ? Like he doing something he shouldn’t or whatever ?
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I don’t want to put bad juju but trust your gut mamas! I did and everything I felt was happening happened. It sucks and my trust is super limited but don’t fight the urge to find out what needs to be found out
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After 11 years together 15 February of this year i was at work and my friend called me to say my hubby was on a street ( she my best friend she always knows were we go and it wasnt one of the places) soo i test him what he was doing after a while he answer hes driving soo i called him and he didn’t want to answer soo i told my boss i would leave cause i wasn’t feeling well i end up to the adress my friend gave me and guess what he was with the girl from the gym freshly done having sex 🤮🤮🤮 sooo believe me when i say always always trust your gut
Always trust your gut but at the same time it’s pregnancy hormones too. However with my first child I was absolutely correct it was him cheating while I was pregnant but this time around with my bf it’s just my hormones. He works a lot but ALWAYS make sure he calls; He proves everything. I think you guys should have a serious conversation or do some undercover investigating.
I’ve been waiting almost two days to have a conversation . He’s always out to work - clearly I’m not his first priority .
@mrsmord, that’s when you start investigating but it’s like we’re all grown and you’re pregnant. Leave his ass in the dust if he can’t accept responsibility for his actions. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I know how it feels first hand; my ex was fucking my enemy smh
I would say go with your gut feeling but you are also pregnant. But I did catch my ex on tinder while I was 5 months pregnant. So if he is I’m so sorry. Being pregnant makes it much harder
I hope you get your answers soon. I hope they are the ones you want. Truly.
Hormones!!! You absolutely cannot trust any type of gut feeling.
I say trust your gut, but I also know pregnancy hormones can make you over think things and I am sure not having communication isn’t making you feel less anxious about everything. Everything will be ok! I hope you two get to talk things out soon so you can have some relief ♥️
I say it’s the horomones and over thinking.
You and your husband haven’t talked much in the past few days and it’s not helping and y’all had an argument and whatnot.
I always say trust your gut but on this one I’m gonna say ignore it and wait until you see him and talk to him and than go from there!
I hope once you guys talk this feeling goes away. I know when I've felt disconnected and pregnant my hormones were crazy and I was suspecting the worst. He needs to make time for you so you can discuss your feelings
I actually never thought that about my hubs. Maybe it's hormones that got you but if it's true it will come to light.
It may be just your hormones. I thought that through both of my pregnancies. My poor husband 🤣🤣🤣I had dreams and everything. I would try to call your nerves until he gets home.
Girl it’s pregnancy lmao I felt like that everytime I was pregnant more so second and 3rd trimester I used to have dreams about it to and it was ridiculous because he’s always with me and when he is at work he calls every break and text all the time pregnancy had me looking crazy 🤦🏻♀️
And I think mainly because I was insecure about myself I didn’t feel sexy and boring cause I was tired I didn’t wear lingerie like he likes obviously cause I was the size of a whale lmao I wouldn’t stress
Trust your instincts definitely but don’t stress it like previously said ... it’ll come out
When I’m pregnant I can’t trust my gut. I have a good healthy marriage. But when I’m pregnant I swear my life is crumbling. My husband doesn’t want me, I’m going to be a single mom. It’s hard as hell emotionally for me being pregnant. I overthink everything!! The smallest thing will eat away at me and soon I have a huge scenario that’s made up in my own head. After I have the baby everything is normal again. If it’s really bugging you, wake up when he does get home and make him talk about it. Even if you guys have to have a fight. Sometimes a blow up is necessary to get your point across.
I would just leave . There is no point in searching around because then your going to feel stupid if he isn’t and in the end it won’t make the relationship better either . And gut feelings are not always real either . Has he cheated before ?
@mrsmord, I don’t want to say your overthinking but I did forget you are pregnant so that could be your case . Don’t stress yourself out about it . Also you and hubby should talk about having a date night while the boys are sleeping . Order pizza . Watch y’all favorite movie together or play a board game . Or anything you can do like y’all could even try cooking dinner together . Brings you closer . It’s the little things 🥰
I will say, I was like 100 percent convinced my husband was cheating on me when I first had both my kids. Like I would get myself so worked up with no evidence or indication at all that he was straying. Guess what! He never was, not even remotely considering it lol I was paranoid and hormonal and emotional as hell. Babies do crazy shit to you man, whether it’s pregnancy or post partum, it messes you up. But like others said, it will come to light, don’t torture yourself over it if there isn’t any indication of anything.
ALWAYS go with your gut Mama trust me it’s right, I dated a guy for 6 years and he was always lying to me and the only way I could actually prove it was to give it time and let the truth come out on it’s own and it did but I truly did love him and was willing to stick it out until I got proof but my gut was definitely right the entire time
@mrsmord, truthfully, I used his phone one day to call my phone and find it and as I scrolled through the contacts I found her number and questioned him about it until he fessed up finally, he told me he never talked to her on the phone just on Facebook so it didn’t make any sense for her number to be in his phone
I believe women have intuition. No doubt if you feel something is off w him, something is off
I don’t mean that it could be the worst case scenario you’re thinking btw @mrsmord
Maybe when you can, make some time to talk and ask him how work has been etc. but until then maybe you can ask yourself when you started getting gut feelings
I don’t want to put bad juju but trust your gut mamas! I did and everything I felt was happening happened. It sucks and my trust is super limited but don’t fight the urge to find out what needs to be found out
Not with my husband but with previous relationships, turns out my instincts were right every single time.
@mrsmord, Maybe its just your hormones messing with you?
@mrsmord, it’s the fact that you feel he is avoiding you. The avoiding makes you feel like he’s hiding something ?
@buneeh, no like when we don’t talk all day and he comes home late even if he’s working idk
Has he ever done anything unfaithful before? I'd start there. I dont believe its always right. Sometimes...more than sometimes it is.
Yes I do a lot. But idk why I do, he goes to work, texts and calls through out the day and comes home while on the phone with me. I don’t think he goes on any thing on his phone, since he’s either playing video games or watching YouTube, but I still get a feeling. Maybe I still have jealousy from when we broke up last summer and I seen his Facebook, just the bitches he added and the same girl he always uses but never wants to be with. I do think a lil crazy. What phone service do you have?? Some let you see all messages and calls from everyone on the plan.
@mrsmord, tell him to stop taking rides and man up and talk. Or wake him up early in the morning and talk to him if he comes home late again. I’d torture that ass, it seems like he’s torturing you and making you feel this way.
@sabi.bishh, i told him he can’t come home late like that .... when he calls me now I’ll tell him we can’t hang up again
@mrsmord, good. Tell him exactly how you feel also. He should care about how you feel and work it all out to make you feel better.
GPS his cell to yours “will show u exactly where he goes many cells have this to share it with your cell
@travis9347, my husband doesn’t have an iPhone tho... whatever i don’t think he’s cheating on me honestly i think he’s going through some emotional stuff and he shuts down sometimes .. idk how to help him he needs help for sure
@mrsmord, maybe try and see a conselor sorry dont know how to spell it
@travis9347, it’s ok and yeah i wanna find one tomorrow
Your gut feeling is always right. Don’t look for it though let it come to light.
@mrsmord, it might not even be nothing. Don’t think about it don’t stress about it. I promise anything done in the dark will come to light. Be happy. This what I always tell myself lol why think about it if it’s not in the present. Stress about it when time comes if not brush it off ☺️
Yes. But remember pregnancy does crazy things to our brains. I’m with @bigmama18, trust your gut.
Something like infidelity? Or like somwthing he knows is bad like getting crazy drunk somewhere or something
@mrsmord, honestly I've found when you have a gut feeling about that most of the time it's normally right.. Now I'm not saying that's the case but there might be something there worth talking about.
What do you think he’s doing? And what gives you that feeling?
Idk , i have these irrational feelings ... it’s weird .
@mrsmord, I’m usually one to say trust your gut. But sometimes we over think things.
@bigmama18, that’s what I’m thinking bc i over think
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