I need advice. My best friend will be going back to work when her son is 12 weeks. She has asked me to babysit every Tuesday since she can't afford daycare. She said she would cook my family dinners on Tuesday. At first I just assumed I was doing this for free I didn't even think about money.. at all (maybe because I'm a good friend) but my mom said right away "well she better be paying you" now it's making me second guess whether or not I should be compensated . It will be every Tuesday for who knows how long. I mean would you do this for free? She said she would make us dinner at least. I don't know... I don't really feel comfortable asking anyway. :-(
Maybe try trading. You watch her baby on Tuesday's and she watches yours for a grocery trip or a date night once a week.
@mamahood I definitely agree with beebaby I mean if she is your bf then u should be able to voice your opinions 2 her. Im sure u guys have both done stuff 4 each other for free or for cheap because of the friendship and I wouldn't let your mom or anyone else make u think like u need to charge her unless u really think u need to be paid. At the end of the day u and her just talk cuz simple things like this can ruin friendships.. good luck mama
i wouldnt think about money if it was my best friend... its only one day.
She is your best friend right? I would screw what my mom said. Her cooking a meal with be good enough for me.
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do
I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and a...
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My friend asked me to watch her dd while she took someone to do something at about 7ish & said "it won't take long"..
Literally have no friends or pt people to text haha every friend turned their backs on me or just don't get my pregnancy or SO issues and I kudu keep to myself. 🙄
Ladies...if your husband has a friend of the opposite sex who is asking for advice from him about what to do about her cheating husband....how would you feel about it? Would you even let that conversation go on? I would like to get every and any opinion on this matter
@beebaby, @chelseaepley, @mommajessica89, @neikadre, @renee556, Thank you ladies !!! I totally agree I should do what I feel is right and initially I wasn't expecting any sort of payment . whenever I need a babysitter or someone to let my dog out when I'm away I'm sure she would be willing . She lives 8 minutes from my house so it's not like a far drive :) plus my son is only around adults all the time so this will be good for him!