i have an 11 week old and my bf has 3 children from 2 other women... it is very hard dealing with all his kids.. i feel very bad about myself. but when he has his kids i dont bother him thats time with his other kids but damn it hurts.. his baby mamas like to ship of the kids to him so they can be all relaxed and he is so available... anyway s every day i try not to be selfish but sometimes its like. make some time for us 2!!!!