Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
what are you guys thoughts on letting your baby cry...my baby goes to sleep on me but once I put him down he crys and wakes up I don't like letting him cry like that so I pick him back up. he will be a month old in 2 days.
Wow I can't leave for a couple hours to find clothes for work without my husband calling me freaking out cause Ben won't stop crying how's he going to handle me going to work he's bitched at me for months to get a job cause he won't so I do but yet he can't handle the kids I come home my house is trashed he let kids get into baby girls stuff and he never fed Ben besides trying to give him a bottle
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Lexis·
Мама сына-младенца
Sometimes you have to let him lay in his crib or pack in play. close the door and let him cry. you shouldn't throw things either. it upsets him. babies feel what we feel. you being stressed and upset..isn't good either.
Lexis·
Мама сына-младенца
how old is the baby?
Samantha·
Мама сына-младенца
@landynsmommy2016, he'll be 6 months next week. He's never slept through the night. Nothing I try works. He just fidgets all night and won't sleep or anything. He'll take a bottle but them is still cranky. He won't take pacifiers. He's teething so I have him pain medicine but I don't even think that works. I try and keep him up later but he still wakes up at 12 then 2 then 330 then 4. And then is up at 530 for the day. He'll have one night where he'll sleep great then it's back to horrible sleeping. Nothing makes this kid happy. I don't know what to do anymore
IS·
Мама двоих (младенец)
maybe crying it out is the way to go... talm to your pediatrician. you need to stay sane
Samantha·
Мама сына-младенца
@concrete, I'm letting him cry it out now. Like there's no way he's hungry. He's had a million bottles later night not to long ago. He's changed. I gave him pain medicine. I'm very patient and understanding that this is the only way they can communicate and it's not his fault. But this morning I'm getting so frustrated and anxious cause I don't know what to do
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына-младенца
Literally went through the exact same thing with my son. Like everything you said, lol. So I can totally empathize with how you feel. It is SO hard not to get to that level of frustration after having utterly no sleep and trying to function on your own. It's also nerve wrecking when baby is upset and you've literally done everything possible to help in any way shape or form. So I get it. However, @landynsmommy2016 is right. try your best not to throw things, because baby will pick up on the stress and it will only make them more upset. Make sure you've got them in a safe spot where they can be left unattended for a few minutes, like a crib, and go somewhere in the house where you can take a breather. Or ask someone in the house for help and if they'll hold baby for a few minutes. Sometimes a change of scenery for baby can work like magic.
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Could he be teething ? My baby had been doing the same thing . She's almost 7m . She has 2 teeth , but I think more is Comming. Is his guns swollen ? Try some orgel .... See if he stops . If so , it's time for teeth
Samantha·
Мама сына-младенца
@teja, he is teething. And that's why I gave him pain medicine. And his daycare forgot to give me back his teething gel. I think he gets himself so overly tired that he fights it and is in a horrible mood. Cause I took him in the shower and then fed him and he fell asleep till now. So like 45 minutes he slept and he's in a better mood