Wow I can't leave for a couple hours to find clothes for work without my husband calling me freaking out cause Ben won't stop crying how's he going to handle me going to work he's bitched at me for months to get a job cause he won't so I do but yet he can't handle the kids I come home my house is trashed he let kids get into baby girls stuff and he never fed Ben besides trying to give him a bottle
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@kissesz30 where I'm going to be I'm not working for them I'm working for an advertising campaign I'll get more information today
@toshagager, I hope everything works out for you... you’re strong for this! FYI they have to give you time and a clean place to pump... no if’s or buts... stay on top of it
@noelladerosia2016 it just might u never know lol
@toshagager that's how darek is he thinks he's gonna expect me to clean the house take care of kids and work when I get a job uh no you can help out it won't kill you!
@johnsonarriel24 I still have some time to figure it out
@johnsonarriel24 I'd like to but I don't think I'll be able to pump when I'm gone I have to find out if I get a break for how long then I'll have to look into buying a car adapter for my pump
@toshagager something gotta give...and u only gone be able to work a few weeks.after delivery u gotta be home.are u breastfeeding?
@aulias_mommy I'm not I stopped doing for him he can't take care of us so why should I do anything for him shit I don't remember the last time we had sex lol and he's going to be really happy once he finds out I'm not going to provide him with cigs
@johnsonarriel24 I know I've been waiting for him to pull his head out of his butt lol and everyone has tried talking to him he just don't care or wants to give excuses that I won't do something so he has to be home well Yeah if ur here and u bitch at me for doing something then why should I try to do it how's he going to handle 6 kids 1 that will be a newborn and a 1yo that is attached to me so bad he'd rather go to his siblings then to his dad if that says anything
You shouldnt have to do it for him. You already do enough and he needs to get it together. Idk how you do it kuz I woulda been whoop his ass and left lol
@toshagager i hope he get his shit together...notgon lie u living my worst nightmare.thats exactly y i wanna tie my tube and finish my education.because men can drop off the earth.and momma gotta hold shit down regardless.u strong momma
@johnsonarriel24 he helps when he don't have school and my 2 oldest kids both cook eggs
@aulias_mommy I did it just because I didn't want him to bitch and if he was going to go support our family then fine I'll do my part but he gave up so why should I do for him
@toshagager omg thats terrible!!!!who tf quits a job doh.its hard to get one
@johnsonarriel24 he quit then he went and helped his dad for a couple months with little pay then he's been on his ass or going to his friends to help him but then he'll make maybe $20 and come home drunk
@johnsonarriel24 I will be standing all day it's going to kill my back and feet before I was a waitress so I was on my feet but at least I was moving I'm not good with standing in 1 spot but this was the only job I could get the company is out of state so everything was done over the phobe they don't know I'm pregnant but they'll find out tomorrow
@toshagager he got laid off or he willingly quir?!
I learned my lesson about waking my SO up for work too and laying his clothes out. That aint my job! He a grown ass man. Lol
@toshagager i would only sit things out to prevent him from trashing the house looking for things lol...but i feel ur pain...dont u have an 11yr old? do he help dad out wen they alone?
@icomplainalot he use to stay home back when we had 3 kids and I was pregnant with our 4th then I lost my job I tried to find work but couldn't even get a call back then after a few months he finally went to work then last September he decided to quit right after finding out about baby #6
@toshagager thats terrible ma.was u standing all day? i hope ur job dont put alot of strain on your body...
@aulias_mommy he'd yell at me for not going out checking on the animals then when I do he'd freak out cause I left the kids inside and they'd just cry I can't ever win
Oops i misunderstood about him working lol ok disregard that part i said..lol
@katygrace prob not he'll just bitch
My husbands thinks all I do is sit on my ass play games watch tv and what not and says he would love to be a stay at home dad. And I’m like yeah, no. You’ll be begging to go back to work.
Whoa he got on you for getting a job while your pregnant and he wont even get one smh. He gotta get over himself. I feel you girl! They dont know until they are left alone with them. They think its so easy. Pshhh. Try again suckah lol I swear we dont get enough credit for doing what we do. We should be the ones getting paid lol
@johnsonarriel24 @katygrace I've pretty much stopped doing things for him why should I when he would work I'd get up start coffee cook for him get his clothes and wake him up he don't do for us anymore so why should I he's not going to do anything for me to go to work I made Ben a bowl of cereal and told him to drain the milk then give it to him it was in the same spot when I got back
@toshagager Thats where they be getting stuff twisted. He will see how its not so easy.
@toshagager dont help him either besides laying things out before work...lets c how he do lol
@katygrace thanks I know he thinks I litterly do nothing all day but he'll find out real soon cause I'm not going to go work 5 days a wook on my feet for him to sit home on his phone all day and just let the kids destroy the house I'm 33 weeks pregnant
A mothers life is never easy. Your man needs to take notes.🙌🏽🤔
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
Paternity leave
How long are your husbands or SO getting off for paternity leave? My husband is only getting 1 week off. Then he leaves again. He works in the oilfields so he's always gone. I'm so upset it can't be longer. I'm more than likely having another c-section so it's going to be hard recovering plus handling a newborn and two year old. Makes me sad ?
Ben constipated for a week & a half....I know this can't be good for the baby...any suggestions...this won't hurt the baby will it
@katygrace thanks I know he thinks I litterly do nothing all day but he'll find out real soon cause I'm not going to go work 5 days a wook on my feet for him to sit home on his phone all day and just let the kids destroy the house I'm 33 weeks pregnant