I'm so irritated. I try to talk to my man about a reasonable plan in regards to a schedule for our son and who watches him. He's home all day with him and I work full time. I think it's fair to give him time to himself after being with him all day and then I get a little time to myself before bed. He seems to think since I'm out that I have "free" time. He's annoyed I talk about fairness and then says I'm nagging. Our relationship is suffering and I said that and he was annoyed there too. Shuts down. He cuts me off and gets defensive and I'm not attacking him. But he pulls the I work harder than you card. I'm so frustrated. I love him but I feel alone.