RANT! Any of you having MIL issues ??? I am very very VERY private with my child. I only share pictures of him with certain people and even when I post on Facebook i choose who can and can't see pictures. My MIL and pretty much her whole family/family friends feel so entitled to MY child. My fiancée won't stick up for me. SHE is constantly stealing my baby's pictures off of my Facebook and posting them on her own page. Sending them to strangers etc. She refers to my LO as "her baby" And says he belongs to no one but grandma. A couple days ago, I posted a picture of my LO to test the waters and let her see it. SHE immediately took it and sent it out to multiple people. One of them being my fiancées uncle. He also posted the picture on his Facebook. I was so tired of arguing over the same bullshit so I deactivated my page. Two minutes later she's writing my fiancée telling him that I was immature for blocking her. SHE then proceeded to comment on the picture the uncle had posted talking shit about me. They we're talking shit about me on my baby's picture !!!! I immediately wrote her and told her I hadn't blocked anyone and that my page was deactivated. SHE deleted all the comments and started apologizing out the ass. My fiancée sees NOTHING wrong with her actions. Ever. This is not the first time she crosses boundaries. The moment she found out I was pregnant she posted it all over Facebook. Most of my family found out Bc of that. I never got to announce my pregnancy! Because she basically did it for me. Not only that. Within hours of her finding out, she had sent 3 of his ex gfs pictures of my pregnancy test and of my ultrasound. MIND you. His ex gfs had continuously came for me and tried to threaten me ! He THANKFULLY said something to the little ex gf. But not his mother ! He doesn't respect my decision of not letting her post/take pics of my baby. His excuse is that she lives out of state and has never seen the baby. Which is such a bullshit excuse Bc if she wanted to meet him, she would've ! I am just so tired of trying to get my point across. Sorry for the rant lol
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@v_daloca, lmfao no. Just no. I wish MIL weren't like this
Haha I walk into my mil feeding my son ice cream (only 5 months) and has no respect for me lol....lol till this day she hasn't even congratulated her son nor I for being parents and giving her her first grandchild
thats exactly why we throw it out lol Oh well no one told her to be a prostitute for a night and not use protection. her pimp/babydaddy got life in prison too
@andrewsmommy, Lmao. Trying to give y'all stuff so then she can say she put clothes on your baby's back!! Lol NO thank you. That's not gonna work
@cassandrareyna14, THANK YOU Lol shes SUCH a deadbeat mom TBH. It's so sad because My SO worships her as a mother. And all she does is disappoint him. She didn't even come to the babyshower bc "something came up" at last minute. She's never even sent her so loved grandson a post card lol has done NOTHING for us. YET she feels so entitled. I don't ask her to spend money or shit like that. Just spend time and make an effort ! Lol she's crazy girl. Crazyyyy
Yup. Now the bitch is extra mad cause I'm pregnant again lol. She always tries to give us her sons clothes he Doesnt fit anymore. she wont hand them to my so. she'll take them to my mil. we just throw them away. shes dirty. pieces of her weave in the clothes, milk stains throw up smells.
@vicky810, I don't understand these women sometimes! She's like a whole different breed.
Oh hell no!! You have every right to keep your baby to yourself if that's what you want. Hours, states, whatever away doesn't matter. If she loved that baby as much as she says and proclaims to everyone and they're mothers then she should make the effort to be more involved in that child's life PHYSICALLY. Had the same problem with my MIL and she's only 30 minutes away. Crying she never gets time with my kid yet can't drive 30 minutes to see her even if it's for an hour. It's never enough for her. Luckily my husband takes my side. At first he didn't, but other altercations changed that.
girl, I would of did the same! that's shit is pure foolishness!
@andrewsmommy, GIRL WHAT. Oh FUCK no. I would've seriously hurt someone. Lol
@allyk.xmommy, thank you! And girl, they are just something else lol
@yadismommy15, youre welcome love. good luck. my MIL is crazy also lol
@allyk.xmommy, tbh, that's what I'm about to do because it's mentally draining. Especially with all the creeps out there now a days. Thank you girl !
My MIL did this once and never did it again. My SO hoe ass coworker tried to get with him while i was PREGNANT and she just had her baby 3 months before. She told him she can tell he was "feeling" her because the way him and his mom were helping her. The bitch got pregnant off one night of being a prostitute and her babydaddy mom tried to get custody of her baby so my SO and his mom helped her get into his nephews daycare (which she turned down because he said he didnt like her and was in a relationship with me. she got mad and started saying shit about him) So when our son was born my MIL sent her a pic of our baby. My SO and I got super pissed and told her she needs to delete our sons pic off her phone and for his mom to not send anyone pics.
I would've just blocked her for not respecting your wishes. and I would text her saying this. it's not fair to you. good luck hun
@v_daloca, girl you ain't lying