does anyone live completely alone? im struggling with this shit. I wish I had anyone to help with the baby but its just…

I don't live alone but I'm alone with baby all day while every one works. And Im 3 months pregnant. Its frustrating lately too

@andrewsmommy im not usually this frustrated but my baby is being extra needy 😢

my husband works 12 hr days 5 days a week and doesn't help with baby at all. . It's me 24.7 so i feel you

He's getting older hun. Hes only 1 month. Maybe teething already. Soon he'll be at that age where he just wants to be on his own

@andrewsmommy im so ready for that lol 😰

@mamabear777 omg same. I know he provides for us and he's tired too but damn

Yes!! It's like their excuse.. But Lil do they understand that being a stay at home mom is hard work to.. We sacrifice alot more especially our social life.. uhf@kambam

@mamabear777 im willing i just need a damn break sometimes. oh well...it gets better i guess

I feel you ladies too. My son is 11 months but his dad helps in no way. Financially yes but physically no. Doesnt change him, bathes him when he wants and I have to ASK him, doesn't feed him or get up in the middle of the night to get him a bottle. Like come on dude and we're about to have another baby in March? He needs to step or im just gonna take full custody

@andrewsmommy thats all bad, im sorry. I love my baby but I was so content with being pregnant because I knew what this was going to be like.

I thought he would change.. He wanted another baby too not just me. It sucks sometimes i have to second guess if I want to keep it. Its too late for abortion which I dont believe in but this is too much.

@andrewsmommy 😢 idk what i'd do in that situation. I hope it gets better for you. no more kids for me 🙅

I jusy pray it all works out for me. He assumes he knows everything about parenting cause hes what 12 years older than me? well mf be a parent. Im gonna be 20 in November with 2 kids... I wish I thought twice about planning another baby.

@andrewsmommy lmao men. smh. not your fault. children truly are a blessing but it really does take a village sometimes. does he work in the city though? cuz they do paid leave now right

Yeah he works with the school district. But the new principal is such an asshole! Told him he'll fire him if he misses 1 more day of work. Like seriously the 1st two times he was sick with the stomach flu. We cant even get a call back from him right now as hes trying to request tomorrow off to go to our ultrasound.

@kambam, break down before break through right bebb

@andrewsmommy, my husband doesn't even Kew how to give him a bath or feed him baby foods lol that is how much he interacts with him

@mamabear777 My boyfriend doesn't feed him baby food either. He'll give him 2 or 3 bites then gives it to me and goes on his stupid phone. One day im just gonna throw that piece of shit

ewwww @andrewsmommy that's my HUSBAND.. Youd think that title would mean a whole lot but it hasn't made a difference at all

@mamabear777 Exactly. He tells me "hes hungry give him something" excuse me MotherFcker i take care of him all day the least you can do is feed him something when you come home! no one told you to work in a school where you deal with kids kinder to 8th grade all day

@andrewsmommy does he do anything with him 😓 is he one of those dads that only does the fun shit 😣

Like I said he'll give him a bath, he'll try to put him to sleep. He'll get him from his room which is right next to us when he cries at night. He'll play but thats about it. Wont change his diaper. Won't sit there and feed him. He'll feed him his bottle but as for solids no. And he claims to be a dad.. A dad does more than buy Jordans for his kid..

@andrewsmommy yeah of course! idk i always blame the parents 😆 my SO's mom doesnt say anything to him about how to raise children.

my MIL does but he always tells her to stfu and blah blah. She babys him and his sister. So she doesnt say anything. As for me I argue with him. Thats your mother you respect her

his sister and him are in their 30s and live at home.

oh dang... lol we're talking mad shit right now I feel bad. I hope hes good to you despite all of this @andrewsmommy

Lol idgaf i talk shit to him

@andrewsmommy my SO started a fight as soon as he got home an hour ago. im like really.... now hes asleep and im not. fuck.

Last night my so and his mom argued like crazy. he tried to throw the babys milk at her. she told him to leave and he said no. then i argued with him and I just went to sleep. i was done I wanted to smack the living shit out of him. I didnt even let him hold my belly last night

wtf? what's wrong with him? 😑 get it together guy 😰 i'd be so sad if my child treated me like that @andrewsmommy

Yeah she wanted to cry but held it in.