I have a question lady's. My stepson (3 years old) has started to have nightmares that made going to bed a struggle and…
I have a question lady's. My stepson (3 years old) has started to have nightmares that made going to bed a struggle and sometimes even violent. I have found out that he is now co-sleeping with his mom (which he has never done until now), we just changed to schedule to where we have him more. They also have cuddle time in her bed and she doesn't always feel the need to wear a shirt or bra. Unfortunately my stepson has always pushed the limits of do not touch so and so butt or boobs etc. He has also stated to give awkwardly long kisses. I'm worried that he is going to think certain things are okay. I by no means think anything sexual is going on, but I am worried. What can I do to make him understand our bed is not for him to sleep in and to make him understand somethings are just no okay to do. I've tired to talk to him, tell him no and put him in time out. Nothing is working. Any suggestions??
starr·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
it's hard as hell being a step parent cause if u decipline them ur the wrong if u try to be there parent ur in the wrong nothing is right when it comes to being a step parent. my hubby gets mad when I get on my stepson he says because I don't get on my son that much my son is 9 and doesn't do anything like that. but ur always wrong. SMH that's why I gave up If he's doing something I just let his dad know n let him handle it then he says oh well why didn't you get on him I tell him u don't want me to.
starr·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
especially if he does innapropriate stuff as ur describing what does his dad say about it. that's not good cause since ur having a baby alot could go wrong if he's around the baby doing stuff like that. u should make him let her know to stop that stupid stuff
Syd·
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girl I feel your pain 100%. being a step parent is HARD!!!! I defiantly never thought I'd be one.
starr·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
@mommy2be102016 yep I told her if she feels like she's his mom she can do what she want and stuff she needs to keep him don't mess him up n revert him then send him back. we had him off the bottle a while ago and he kept coming back with them. he was telling us if he had to go potty and he came back n won't say a word he cries like someone is killing him if I say anything to him. she doesn't want me to play the mom role to him but only gets him once every few months to be honest I gave up and let his dad deal with him I can't do it. some people are just ignorant and don't see anything wrong with what there doing
Syd·
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that's exactly what we deal with every time. She loves pulling the "I'm his mother ill do what I want or the don't tell me how to raise my son". It's frustrating because I feel like she is making it seem like it's okay for him to see things or do things that are just inappropriate.
starr·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
y'all are going to have to have a sit down cause anything you teach him is going to go into one ear n out the other cause if his mom is doing these things n ur trying to teach him it's wrong he's going to go with what his mom is teaching him. my step son is 3 also and he basically lives with us so we let his mom know like look this is what we do and this how we do it. but it doesn't work she does what she wants and he comes back reverted back to his old ways and with new stuff that we don't like