So this girl told me because I'm of the darker complexion my child can't be light skinned. Really ma'am. First when I was a baby i came out light. His dad and his family is of the lighter complexion my dads family is of the lighter complexion. Like don't tell me what my child is gonna look like worry bout ur own and what he looks like. My child is light with freckles he may not have gotten it from me but he got if from someone in one of his families
@anthonysmommie080116, right the color of your baby skin should never be an issue. Then for that comment to come from someone who calls themselves your friend, that is disappointing.
@amaris, exactly I would love me child no matter what but she made it an issue and it pissed me off
Wow ppl can be soooooo ignorant and disrespectful. Why does it matter anyways...?.
thata so stupid I'm not dark as you can see but my youngest son I call him pinky because he's so white his dad is lighter so he gets it from him my son looks mixed
My hubby is sssuupperrr dark and my daughter is tan with dark eyes and dark hair. She looks mixed. People are ignorant
@ladyameliasmama, that's so rude and stupid. My friend is darker than me her baby is ligh skinned with blonde hair and blue eyes and he's fully black! He took after his daddy grandfather
I've gotten the same comments and now that my daughters here people tell my hubby she can't be his because shes not dark enough 😒
@harleyquinn420, I'm not pregnant anymore he's here but it's still very rude either way. But yes she need to head back to biology cuz she made a dumb ass statement and I read her ass for filth to.
Well that was rude of her.....and she obviously didn't pay much attention in biology class when genealogy was discussed. Why are some women so rude to pregnant women? Like we have enough to deal with without getting shitty comments about what you THINK our babies are gonna look like. 😒
@anthonysmommie080116, some people like to hear themselves talk.
@amyadink1, omg yes very rude and just stupid. Crazy part is she suppose to be a friend.
@surprise4, she pissed me off completely. I had to calm myself before I responded
That's rude as shit for one and she don't know what the hell she talking about and mind her damn business!!
she need a basic biology class. All of my children are lighter than both me and their father with the exception of my step daughter.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleep...
And the bs begins, my SO mom & grandma both saying the baby dont look like him 😒, I don’t even have the time to argue with them but I know they’re in his head about it & it really bothers me that he’s questioning it. I never had a relationship with them and now I don’t honestly care too. I’m at such a breaking point with all of him and his family. Just ranting my baby looks like a potato I don’t see myself in him other then my lips & complexion, but he clearly has his dads nose 😡

when Karter was born, everyone said he was his dads twin.. now everyone is telling me Karter looks more like me. what do y’all think?! who does he look more like?
@amaris, exactly. 😒