Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My Family is always saying how unattractive my BF is... What I Love about him is his personality. I Don’t See Him As Ugly. But Now That We Are Trying To Have A Baby Again, I Find Myself Concerned With How Our Child Will Look....as Shallow as it sounds... I’m afraid. I Know I’m DEAD wrong But I Don’t Want Our Baby To Be Made Fun Of His/Her Whole Life Like My SO was Just Because Of Their Looks. I don’t want a child with anyone but him. Why Am I Feeling this Way all of a sudden?
I really don’t want to name my son Rodrigo. The only reason i am naming him that is because he would be the 4th Generation and I’d feel like a total B**** if i don’t:(. My husband wanted him named after him at first but now that he sees i really don’t like it he said its ok to name him something else. But to be honest his family would probably get upset. 😩
This girl sent me videos on snapchat of her and my boyfriend having sex and he’s lying to everyone trying to make me seem crazy but I see his entire face in the video. The girl is saying she is pregnant by him and he’s lying saying “it’s someone that looks like me it’s not me in the video” I’m just so tired of him taking me for a joke. I have to go through this and our son is due January 1st he’s yelling at me for crying honestly I don’t even want him in the room when I have my son I can’t even look at him and he’s acting like the victim when he got caught. I left my moms house to go live with him in his moms basement where I am barely welcomed. With all this going on I can’t even be excited for my sons arrival I never imagined my pregnancy to be like this and I went through his phone and his friend called me fat and he did nothing but laugh. I’m just tired of feeling like I’m no one, like I’m not important, no one should treat their kids mother like this.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Emily·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
@ooshefit2 LOL yeah thats what i said.
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I don’t do that logic 😂😂
“Like how dare you trap my poor innocent baby boy with a baby, ITS NOT HIS”...says the incest mother who can’t bare the thought of her son making babies with another woman
Emily·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
@ooshefit2 Why ? I wouldnt jump to leaving just because he asked for one.
But @alyboo102293 my bd mom did this to me for months. it was hell. my bd asked me to get one and it bothered me too so i feel u. but once we got one it shut all of his family the hell up which was good but its always that tension when we see each other. its always awkward idk. but itll be ok girl ❗
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Maybe not you🤷🏻♀️
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@ooshefit2, and yeah right , at this rate...she gets a paternity and then they won’t leave her alone about wanting a baby they didn’t want in the first place because “DNA test”
Fuck that 😂
angelfoodcake·
I'd give him one though
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
Girl I’m really tempted to just do it and end it all cause I already feel disrespected by the fact that its even being thought about
angelfoodcake··
I think it's none of his families business to press the issue, he's a grown man and y'all are in a committed relationship. Now if he wants one then I think it's reasonable, but of course because y'all are engaged I know it's a level of mistrust you are feeling. Talk to him and see where he's at with it. Me I would insist on it now from the family comments, and they need to pay lol
angelfoodcake·
Wow
Maya 🐝·
Why are they being so stupid? Can your son get a month in this world yet?
Maya 🐝··
@alyboo102293, seriously? You need a reason to take pictures of your newborn?! He needs to stop that shit. You’ve been by yourself the entire pregnancy and gave birth by yourself like a champ! The least he can do is not be disrespectful to you and say some shit like that.
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
@amouryaya09, yeah I know & what makes me sick is like his family won’t stop but I’m fine with it if he wants to file for paternity & set up child support we can go there because it’s automatic around here 🤷🏼♀️.
Maya 🐝··
I totally feel you! He blame his family for that. He needs to use his own brain. Your child does not have to look like you to be yours.
Leah·
At a week old newborns typically don't look like either parent because they just spent 9 month in fluid and all squished up. Are you guys married?
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
Exactly they get on my nerves, I never would have sent them pictures had I known they only wanted them to compare 😑.
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
No we aren’t we’re engaged but whew I don’t know if I can even follow through at this point in time
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Tell your SO
“If you ask for a paternity test, I’m leaving you”
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
He knows where I stand on that , Id more the oblige and give him one but yes we will no longer be together because obviously he doesn’t trust me at all when I’ve done nothing but hold him down through everything including this deployment 🙄 he keeps saying he don’t care what they say but obviously you do or you would have vouched for your son regardless of how he looks right now. But instead he said he just laughed about it. & I know they’re on the phone screaming he get a dna test 😒 I’m over it.
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that’s okay. And they never have to be apart of that baby’s life then