having personally lived from escaping domestic violence you need to start by calling the police and pressing charges

@karma21, nope nope nope you need to get the hell out of there. That is no relationship to bring a child into, trust me, my father was like that with my mother and I'm the one that paid the price, if he does that to you he will likely do it to your child as well. There are women's and children's shelters all over, find one near you and run to it as fast as you can. If he tries to stop you CALL THE POLICE don't just sit there and do nothing about it. He won't stop his behavior, they never do, even if they say they're sorry and didn't mean it.

he says he has a son by another woman and yet I see no reason. why he should be a father with his violent tendencies.. At first we were happy and we were getting along then he found out I'm on ssi.

guys... I'm not feeling safe here.

@ainsleighsmumma, I'm worried because I know you are right.. this man is the love of my life yet he stays violent and has a tendency to be very aggressive and mostly does the same behavior of a very sick man.. on top of that he has told me he would kill me of I left him.. I told him I wanted to leave and that was his reply.

there are shelters and victims advocates available you need to call the police and press charges first but there is help

@mv92 I have no where else to go..

Report him for domestic abuse and theft. Don't let him pull this shit!!! Kick his ass out girl!!!!

yep.. you got it right on the money @sparklymama

if I read this right, and this was me, I'd be for packing either my things and leaving or his things and kicking him out. no excuse for him to choke you. and no excuse for him to steal from you

excuse me did you say he choked you? and now he's just laying in bed and has hurt feelings because he's denying pregnancy? just making sure I'm reading this right

what r you still doing with him?! kick his ass out!

Well that's a toxic relationship. He can't just not give you your card, that would be stealing and you can turn him in for that. Also don't let him put his hands on you, that's not how a man should ever treat a woman.