This Thursday I hit my 40 days and my bf and I want to have sex this Friday, but I'm afraid. Even though I want to also do it with him I'm super scared and I don't know what to expect. Any suggestions? Should I wait longer? I'm scared it's going to hurt really bad and I'm scared that I might bleed or tear again since my daughter tore me when I gave birth to her. I think I'm just traumatized, but I want to do this because I have waited so long and my bf has waited too.
Either way I will check with my physician, but thank you for your feedback @meli2890
a lot of girls who had vaginal delivery don't even wait 40 days I would think your good.. but I wouldn't know cause this is my 2nd c section I never delivered down there
I had my baby on June 16th and it was vaginal so idk if that makes a huge difference? @meli2890 this is my first baby so the whole recover thing it new to me too.
I want to drink like a beer to get myself comfortable, but I'm breastfeeding so I don't know if I should.
I had my baby July 5th I already had sex twice and also had a C-section ... I was scared but it was good.. if it hurts you stop
I have stitches from the laceration when I had Emma and Daniel and I had sex. It hurts a bit but you just need to find a good position.