I am so sick of my husbands family 😒
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. Deff thankful for my family atm. I will start to do eBay too . I have stuff i can sell... anything to help out alittle help my husband ... whatever i can do.
Does anyone else get fed up with your SOs Grandparents or parents? My husbands grandma and Grandpa raised him I love his grandpa to death but I absolutely can't stand his grandma always thinking she's right and I'm wrong .
anessa·
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I am religious and so is my husband. Its funny because so is my grandma yet she still thinks I should take her side no matter what. @mommarodey
anessa·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Exactly its not like I was just siding with some boyfriend I had against her! He is my husband and the father of my children! @klove23
Marjorie·
Мама дочки-младенца
Family is always family, but if she was wrong, she was wrong. And if they expect you to side against your husband WHILE she's wrong on top of that, they need to get a grip.
@mommarodey has it exactly right, your new family unit is your top priority, and your sisters/aunt/whoever all need to respect that! 💯 👌
Teresa B·
Мама дочки-младенца
No you weren't in the wrong and I agree with @mommarodey
Taylor·
Мама дочки-младенца
I agree 💯%
shakala·
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Yeah that's just plain silly. Why would you defend someone that's WRONG lol but yeah people have that bad like no he's not just a boy we have children together and have been to get soo get over it
anessa·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Thank you! My sisters and my aunt keep telling me that I should have defended her no matter what that boys come and go. I told them we have two kids together we have been married for almost 2 years he is more then just a boy. They just wont listen.. @klove23
shakala·
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Nope ! If she was wrong, then she was wrong no other way to slice it ..
anessa·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Thank you! I just thought it was so wrong of my family to expect me to take her side against him. Especially since I really didn't agree with her to begin with! @logansmama
zezarray·
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nope