So I'm just wondering if I am the only one who thinks this way. I feel that when I got married took my vows that me and my husband were starting our own family. Yes I still have my family, but me and him would be starting a whole new one and that comes first. Well my grandma and my husband got in a huge fight ( I feel personally my grandma was in the wrong) I chose my husbands side. Well now some of my family members are saying its wrong of me and family should always be first. I told them he is my family we are a family and I will always put him and my children first. Am I wrong for thinking this way?
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Exactly its not like I was just siding with some boyfriend I had against her! He is my husband and the father of my children! @klove23
Family is always family, but if she was wrong, she was wrong. And if they expect you to side against your husband WHILE she's wrong on top of that, they need to get a grip.
@mommarodey has it exactly right, your new family unit is your top priority, and your sisters/aunt/whoever all need to respect that! 💯 👌
No you weren't in the wrong and I agree with @mommarodey
Yeah that's just plain silly. Why would you defend someone that's WRONG lol but yeah people have that bad like no he's not just a boy we have children together and have been to get soo get over it
Thank you! My sisters and my aunt keep telling me that I should have defended her no matter what that boys come and go. I told them we have two kids together we have been married for almost 2 years he is more then just a boy. They just wont listen.. @klove23
Nope ! If she was wrong, then she was wrong no other way to slice it ..
Thank you! I just thought it was so wrong of my family to expect me to take her side against him. Especially since I really didn't agree with her to begin with! @logansmama
I am religious and so is my husband. Its funny because so is my grandma yet she still thinks I should take her side no matter what. @mommarodey