So I'm just wondering if I am the only one who thinks this way. I feel that when I got married took my vows that me and my husband were starting our own family. Yes I still have my family, but me and him would be starting a whole new one and that comes first. Well my grandma and my husband got in a huge fight ( I feel personally my grandma was in the wrong) I chose my husbands side. Well now some of my family members are saying its wrong of me and family should always be first. I told them he is my family we are a family and I will always put him and my children first. Am I wrong for thinking this way?