thank you @jwalkn4 AND @skyy12221

@jwalkn4, I hope mine turns out good, I'm planning it this month with no help.

I agree with @skyy12221 My friend did colors and tied them together versus two different themes and it was cute! @nanii1216

@nanii1216, you're welcome and it's no problem 😊

thanks you did help @skyy12221

@nanii1216, I'm doing my sons 2nd birthday party and my newborns baby shower the same day. I'm due a week after he turns two in September so I'm doing it the second week of September. I suggest doing a theme that would incorporate both that's appropriate. Or just do colors. My sons theme is Daniel tiger for his Bday but my newborns theme is Dr Seuss it would look hideous to combine both lol so I'm doing sea turtles with the colors blue green and white. Turtles mean a lot to me and my hubby that's why I picked it. And then if you want to do a little something separately for your 4 year old take him and a few friends or family to wherever he would want to go. I'm still doing a little something for my 2 year old on his actual birthday but won't be much since I'll be 39w pregnant at that time. Hope I helped 😊

@jwalkn4,

did she do two different things or something more similar to each other

My best friend had a baby shower/birthday party combined for her first son and second pregnancy and it actually worked really well. She didn't put a whole lot of baby shower planning/decorations into it and made it more birthday party feel, but everyone knew it was a baby shower so they brought presents and she opened them after her son opened his. @nanii1216

that sounds like a great idea thank you @jwalkn4

You could take your son and a friend or two (maybe a cousin if they can) on a trip for his birthday weekend, or even just a day trip to the zoo or somewhere. But then do a party for that everyone can attend. Present table for your son and the new baby, baby shower games that aren't all about baby so your son and his friends could play too.