Had to hold my husband all night last night because people were setting off fireworks and my husband has PTSD. He felt so bad because he thought he was going to be able to handle them this year for baby girl but he can't. I told him it's fine I can take baby girl out side of the house and see them.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
so my mom was telling me I should give my son baby cereal at night because at night is when he wants to eat the most. I haven't done it yet but who thinks its okay I was thinking doing it when he's two months!??
Am I wrong for not wanting anybody to hold the baby if it's not me or my husband? If they touch them I have them to sanitize their hands I do it to my kids also??
Subject = husbands/s.o. Does your s.o help with baby at night? Like, oh idk with feedings? Haha Mine tries to but he gets up early for work so I guess that opts him out of caring for baby at night? I'm a sahm currently. It's the weekend and my husband can sleep through our sons crying on the baby monitor that is on my husbands night stand lol on loud!!! I knew he slept like a hibernating bear but how in the world can he sleep through such a thing? I can't believe it. And he was totally supposed to feed our son when he woke up ? Mama had too ?
Kristin·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
@mlgh92, aww thank you so much
Micha Leigh Givens·
My hubby had to do the same thing for me last night, your husband isn't alone. I wish there was a cure for this. I hope he is okay and I'm here to talk.
Kayla·
В ожидании первенца
I feel for you girl. My husband is the same way... An Afghanistan veteran and he jumps and looks petrified at every boom he hears. 😞
Kristin·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
thanks ladies@kia, @bugmama
kia·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)
Bless his heart and yours.. thank you for keeping our country safe.
Alex·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (31 нед.)
I am so sorry. I have seen the effects as well on my friends and family it can be so difficult.
Kristin·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
thank you ladies that means alot thank your spouses for us as well. I hope everyone hasa safe night tonight.
Brianne·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Oh no ): I'm glad he doesn't have serious episodes from them though (from what I'm gathering, I apologize if I'm wrong).
Morgan·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего
We are going out tonight for the first time since mine has been back from Afghanistan. He hates fireworks now because of being there 😞 I'm proud of him for going out tonight though
Jennifer·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
😞 people all around us outside of base were shooting some all night long. We had to turn a tv on and up loud to help him not hear it. I'm sure today/tonight is going to be worse surrounding the base.
Teria·
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this breaks my heart. I'm so sorry and please tell him thank him for his service from my family && I .
chanel·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
sorry you have to deal with that but your a awesome wife for being understanding.
Stacy·
В ожидании первенца
awe I'm so sorry 😢