Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Okay ladies I need advice. My husband came home from work a few weeks ago and decided he no longer wanted to be a husband or father. He told me that the kids and I need to leave and if we dont he will no longer pay the Bill's. I am unable to work because of high risk pregnancy. My only option is to move back to ohio and stay with my parents. (We live in Kentucky now) also last weekend I was admitted to the hospital and he was home with the kids...he decided to just walk out and leave them home alone while he went to hang with friends. I'm livid and to the point where I want my children away from him and myself too. Am I wrong for moving so far away?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Really need to vent rn... Im not the type of person that likes putting my personal business out but I really need somebody to talk to.... So here it goes 😒. Yesterday I bought my first car ever for a $1000 it needs minor work ( no biggie), but it drives amazing. And my s/o is going off on me because I bought a car wow he was at work. So he says "I'm rushing". But I'm at home with two mfn kids all day everyday and when I need something done I have to wait til his off day just to get things done.. (Not fair) and with me and the kids having doctor appts all next week n he's gonna be working I'm tryna figure out what's the problem.. I'm starting to think🤔 he just dont want me to have a car.
missing563user·
Yeah he can't take your kids.
Bianca·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Call 211 and tell them about the domestic violence you are experiencing. The can find resources to get you and your baby back home to your family. DO NOT STAY IN THAT TYPE OF ENVIRONMENT! It's not healthy and it only gets worst. I have been in your shoes and I am so much happier now. The courts will not give your babies to him just because you don't have a job right now hun. Build your life and be happy without him. I'm so glad I did
Alicia·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I left my abuse husband. You CAN do it. Don't let his threats scare you. While he was at work I went to the court house and filed papers giving me full temporary custody of my daughter, I was able to do it because of the abuse. While that order was in effect I moved back in with my parents. When I had to go back to court because the papers expired I had him served divorce papers. The judge allowed my daughter to stay with me until the divide was final. At that point he got some visitation rights and child support was enforced. Hardest thing I ever did, but I can't imagine my life (and daughters) had I stayed. Good luck to you.
Jaqueline Freeland·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Call domestic violence. Don't cutout baby see you go through that. It isn't good for you or your baby
Misti Smith·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
@babes101116, how do I get it to where he has to pay for both our lawyers? I wish leaving were that easy. we are over an hour from any of my family and I have less than 1/4 tank of gas and no money to get any. since he is the only one working, he won't let me have any money, there is literally $0.34 in the bank. and he is telling me he won't pay our eletric that is due and he is going to shut my phone off so i don't have a phone and nobody can get a hold of me. electric is in my name. our van is in both our names and he says if I leave I can figure out how to pay for that myself even though I don't technically go back to work until the end of July
Jessie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
No. He has to pay for both your lawyer and his. Take the kids and move back to your family. I know it hard but you need a better environment for the kids