Is It Wrong to Feel Annoyed About Partner's Constant Overtime?
is it wrong of me to get annoyed that my OH is always doing over time? he works 9-5 mon-fri as standard, so I never see him much apart from a few hours on a night, which is spent me doing his tea and cleaning afterwards, watch a film then Bed, but now, he's put over time in for the next 3 weekends, working 8-8 on Saturdays, and 10-4 Sundays
I can't help but feel pissed off, as I'm home alone, with nothing to do all day and I look forward to him coming home, yet it seems like any day we can spend together, he puts in overtime:/
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I thought that a few weeks ago, but I know everyone he works with, and I have checked on him a few times to make sure he is there, and he is 😅 I don't get it either @sophie94x xx
if it's not money issues then I'd be thinking something was going on with another woman but I'm a paranoid person 😂 why would he rather be at work than spend time with you I don't get it xx
I understand the whole money thing, but we have savings, enough for baby's first year, and he wastes all his wage on whatever he wants, so it's not for extra money, he's on a temp contract so I think it's to impress his employer, but 7 days a week, and full days is a piss take:/ I should be grateful, but I can't be @mich77 xxxx
is he worrying about money for when the baby arrives @lolliigee. my hubby has started to do ot too, although not to the extreme of your oh but he says he wants to get money together for when little one comes. I think it's his way of contributing cos I'm carrying and growing the child and he feels a bit like a spare part. Not sure if this is similar to your situation but I would be totally pissed off if he did 7 days a week at work so I feel your annoyance xxxx
I work full time and my partner is self employed. Which means he can be out of the house from 5am til 7/8pm. We don't get to see each other as much as we'd like to but the way we see it, the more we can bring in, the more comfortable we can live and the more we can spoil our little boy. He's providing for you and bubba, I know it's hard being on your own a lot but just be thankful he wants to go out to work rather than sit on his Arse or make you do a shit load of hours xx