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brianna
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Мама двоих (младенец)

I'm so upset with myself.. I couldn't breast feed because he wouldn't latch the right way and wasent getting enough . no…

I'm so upset with myself.. I couldn't breast feed because he wouldn't latch the right way and wasent getting enough . no matter how many times and different positions he couldn't get it. so I was pumping and was still not getting a lot so I kept trying and he was doing whatever I pumped and then the rest of it he was drinking with formula. well now my boobs are so engorged after pumping every 3 hours that it hurts to move or breathe or anything and I feel so terrible because it hurts so much I don't wanna pump anymore because I can't take the pain.. I feel like a terrible mother that I'm giving up feeding my child because it hurts me.. I can't stop crying and my fiance is not helping the situation he says just to stop and isent trying to make me feel batter idk what to do ..

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bri28

SabrinaМама двоих (младенец)

@fiona01, well.... I don't have any more advice for you 😞 I wish you the best of luck

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fiona01

briannaМама двоих (младенец)

I have a few of those @bri28 they gave me those ones and another kind to use at hospital and the lanolin works but only for a few min then it feels worse then before

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bri28

SabrinaМама двоих (младенец)

@fiona01, have you tried nipple shields? Just remember that you and baby have to get used to one another still and try to find a good rhythm. For sore nipples I recommend breast milk, put it on, let it dry..... Then lanolin. And get these, I loved them!!!

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fiona01

briannaМама двоих (младенец)

I saw 4 separate consultants and none of them were able to make it work for me they all tried different things. I'm upset it Isn't helping @bri28 @wiccanmommy

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bri28

SabrinaМама двоих (младенец)

@fiona01, I see your baby is about a week old. Don't give up just yet! Please go see a lactation consultant, you will be surprised how awesome they are and they will help you tremendously! I know for new moms (even if theres previous kids) the first couple of weeks are the hardest. Please don't give up

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wiccanmommy

KristinМама четверых детей

Did you ry talking to a lactation consultant. maybe something can be done to make pumping more comfortable. . or you could manually express.

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housfullofgrls

JessieМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

You tried, don't beat yourself up.

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