So, my bd and I are not on good terms. I don't associate with him at all & as far as I know we have a custody battle in…

Dolly you never know....when baby is here things may be different but right now just concentrate on yourself. If I were you I would probably write her and politely ask her to mind her own damnnnn business and if in the future he wants to have contact with his child it is between you and him and if she is still in the picture you will cross that bridge when y'll come to it but in the meantime her actions are disrespectful and unacceptable.

@butterly234, yeah you seem to be doing a good job being a step parent, that's how it should be! But you're right, if he ever would grow up I would consider it but I don't see that happening for a long time.

I grew up with a very mean stepdad and didn't know my real dad. I didn't really know what I was getting myself into but I love her and she loves me but I've made it very clear that I'm "Kim" and even after her father and I get married I'm still "Kim" she never has to call me "mom" and I don't want her 2. Her mom is with this guy NOT married and wants her to refer to him as her "stepdad" and she cried to me about it one night so I made her dad talk to her about it. She's just a kid! Maybe if you and baby daddy clear the air and you let him see baby and she ends up being nicer hopefully y'll can kinda come to an agreement? But I agree she's way outta place right now.

@butterly234, yeah if it seemed like she was gonna be nice I wouldn't make it such a big deal! But wow, that's good for you that you can be the bigger person for your stepdaughter! Growing up my mom & stepmom could never get along and I always wanted them to be friends because I loved them both. So I'm sure your stepdaughter will appreciate it in the future

I was hoping she was trying to be nice and reach out. I'm in a sticky situation cause my bd ex wife doesn't like me but they have a daughter together and I love her so I try to make nice to her so we can all get along for the sake of the kid.

@butterly234, honestly I don't know, I have never met her & don't know who she is. But the way she acted towards my friend when she messaged her was really rude, so my guess is she's not trying to be nice

Is she the jealous type or is she just trying to reach out and try to be nice?

@Hoping24, yes omg! I don't even get why she must care though, me & him were never really together tbh and she just started talking to him like last week? It's whatever though I'll just ignore her like I ignore him 😂

Some girls be petty a'f! It really hilarious how some girls will never grow up either and the fact she wants to act like a petty hoe is really funny because you're having his baby not her and it's probably killing her inside.

Lol I feel like she wants to play stepmom or something 😂 like this is not a game of house, this is real life and I have nothing to say to you 😅 @hoping24 @cubanese

Some women now a days at like some boy crazy 13 years old thinking everybody wants there man especially their exs. She needs to get a life and stay out of yours obviously if you wanted him you could get him someone's just a little jealous.😂😂😂

@Hoping24, for real 😂 @cubanese exactly! I just keep ignoring her requests 😂

@ashsloan, that's what I thought too lol like if I don't even talk to him why tf would I want to talk to her? then she told my friend to "grow up" and have me accept her request so she could talk to me. Um no thanks lmao

It sounds like she needs to get a new hobby. 😂

She sounds like she just wants to be a petty bitch