got into a major fight last night with my fiance. he thinks that he's doing such a great job at being here and…
got into a major fight last night with my fiance. he thinks that he's doing such a great job at being here and supporting us because he works. I tried to explain that there's more to it then just working and sleeping. i tried to tell him that attention, appreciation, and the "small things" are still needed. he said I was just being selfish. how would he feel if I just stopped the love notes, the praising, the love I give him, the way he's done to me? what then? our son is going to be born sick, I've been sick since before we got pregnant, and getting him to do ANYTHING with me is near impossible. I do not think we are going to last!!!😞
Sydney·
Мама дочки (4 года)
neither do i.
Jasmine Siqueiros·
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Tell him that you appreciate his input but he doesn't control you. If you wanna work from home that's your choice. I would understand if it was a job that you had to do a lot of standing and walking but if it's an at home job I don't see what the problem is
Sydney·
Мама дочки (4 года)
he works, but his work is sitting at a front desk at a hotel checking people in. and in this town, it's hardly ever busy except a few holidays throughout the year. i want to work but HE won't let me, even told me after our son is here that I'm NOT allowed to. so that's on him. yes I'm high risk, and on bed rest, but I can work from home. but he won't let me
Jasmine Siqueiros·
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Hang in there momma. My fiancé is the same way. And honestly I've been on the verge of leaving him so many times. But I have to look back and see that he works so much and he is tired. I'm sure he still loves you very much. But having a baby changes the both of you :/ you may be dealing with pregnancy but he's dealing with the anxiety of having to support you and baby. I know it's hard right now but things will get better :)