my mother in law has really crossed the line still bitching cause we didn't want her back in the delivery room and started questioning which one of us didn't want her back there and then had to nerve to say that she showed my kids a family when Noone else would and that she didn't have to accept my kids but that my son is her blood and all this all this which this has my husband pissed off and then kept asking which one of us it was that didn't want her back there and my husband said that she wanted her mom back there and she's like well I could of been back there to I called the borad of directors of the hospital and I could of been back there when the doctors said different and so did the nurses but she didn't believe my husband and hung up on him my husband has been a mess since our son has been born idk what to do about it I can't even post online about my son because of my mother in law
I know exactly how you feel, only it's the opposite situation. it's my mom instead of his. this is our first baby and I want it to just be my fiance and I when I'm pushing our son out. I told my mom that I respect her decision to want to be there, and that I want her to be there before and after I have the baby but just while I'm pushing I want it to just be me and my fiance... she blew up. she has now disowned me and calls me horrible names and she is preventing my siblings from talking to me or talking about me. she told me she wants nothing to do with me or "IT" referring to my son! we told my fiances mom our plan and she was completely fine with it.
@lynna0909, trust me I'm beginning to think so my self according to my husband she's always been this way and it got worse after my husband's dad died
@nygirl3rdbabymiami, oh geez mine wanted me to kick my own mom out of the room my husband looked at hwr and said are u going to rub her back and stuff for her she's in pain and she's like no why would I do that he's like and that's why her mom is back there and not u
@lynna0909, oh were no longer talking to her and she's pissed my husband off so bad he's taking her to court because off the stuff she's been saying
@andiryan93, yea I know she knew that and we told her that but she's been a bitch since my son been born we've even had to avoid going past hwr house now to get to my mom's because she calls and starts yelling because we didn't stop at her house when she stopped by the other day she bitched about everything and she didn't even hold my son her daughter did and she moved him the wrong way and ripped my son's cord and caused him to bleed which it took all I had not to go off on her
@lynna0909, thank u were doing good minus the all the fighting with my mother in law and yea the day we told her I was pregnant that that it was only two ppl back there and she had her 14 year old daughter with her anyway she wouldn't even come back to see him after my mom left because I was breast feeding and I'm not comfortable feeding him in front of her or his mom and she got all mad because I didn't want his sister to come back there didn't even congratulate my husband he had to ask her to because she spent the whole time bitching they even said that they were there before my mom and that they should be back in the room with me when I wanted my mom she wanted me to kick my own mom out the the delivery room when she's been there for my first two kids and I wanted her there for my son after we got moved to recovery my mother in law wouldn't even speak to me nor look at me it's been crazy she even said my husband's treated her like crap when really it's been her doing it
this decision is very personal between you and your husband, my z mother in law tried that shit when i had my 1st ,she said something like oh in my country the father's mom needs to be in the delivery room&I reassured her Not happening in this country/delivery she and her son are very happy together I'll leave it at that far away
@nale2016, I've tried but it dosent want