my husband got mad at me this morning because when he left to run to shell the phone went off and it was something about…

Just keep doing your best to show him hes your one and only.

Maybe the girls before you cheated on him too much and the idea of a loyal woman is just far out there to him.

yeah, it's just something he's gonna have to deal with then. It sucks having insecurities like that. You are doing everything you can to reassure him then it's on him.

@michellevaldez4750, I give him my phone. I don't delete anything I have nothing to hide. and he knows that

@gingermama, that's how my husband was, he convinced himself I was cheating so he didn't feel so bad for doing it to me. I'm not sure what hurt more, him cheating or him constantly being convinced that I was!

If its insecurity then I guess there's not really much you can do other than try to keep reassuring him. They have things that you can put on phones that will allow ppl to see literally everything! erased messages, gps tracking etc. it's crazy really and my husband had did that to me! But honestly I had nothing to hide and it obviously made him feel better to know that he could see anything he wanted. Idk how you'd feel about allowing him to do that but the option is there.

:( my husband used to be like that with me too, turned out he was the one cheating every time he left the damn house!

thank you @maybaby2016

well, I'd rather him be insecure than guilty...still isn't fair to you but that's the lesser of the two evils. I wasn't so lucky but you live and learn. best of luck to you guys 😊

@maybaby2016, he must have forgotten cause he was just fine at lunch. he's very insecure. he always tells me he thinks I'm gonna find someone I want to be with more. Which isn't gonna happen

good luck honey

I've already been down that road, that's why I commented

@maybaby2016, @courtneywarner @gingermama @mommytobe607 @newmommy227 he's done this for 8 years now and it's to the point I want to throat punch him every time he says something about it... I've never cheated on him. and I'm sure he knows that

Careful momma. He might be the one doing the cheating. That's how my boyfriend was back in the day.. Come to find out he was cheating on me. Thank god he's not like that any more!!! But seriously be careful

my boyfriend is the same way I have just learned to ignore it

Some people have to pretend you did something wrong so they dont have to feel shitty for what they did.

I think he may have something hes trying to hide and hes trying to catch you doing it so he dont feel so bad for doing it himself.

... Thats weird. He could have looked at your phone. like really.. Lol.

Really its usually the other way around

guys usually do that when they have a guilty conscience...or he could just be that insecure I guess