Hey mommies I need to rant...... I'm in not the best situation when it comes to co-parenting with my ex.. I do everything physically financially, emotionally, mentally ect. But it seems no matter what I do, I can't get him to be a parent or take any initiative... I feel so emotional right now due to pregnancy and stress... He comes to see our daughter once a week if that sometimes for as little as 45 minutes but it's after most of the time I have to ask him if he's coming to see her and I am telling him how she is he don't even call to try and talk to her I feel like I should just cut off communication with him and go on I didn't have the best father relationship growing up I just wanted more for my little ones... Do I just keep my kids from the heartbreak and hurt.
Believe me, you can't change people! He'll be that way forever..I wouldn't allow that around my children. Yes it's hard and there will be days where it doesn't seem worth it but trust me don't allow your kids around people who wouldn't give them the world. They'll hurt more in the end. Hang in there..I know its rough. If you need someone I'm always willing to listen!