I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
Boy mamas! I need help! I just found out yesterday I'm having a little baby boy🤗 I need opinions on cercumsizing? 🤔 I'm stuck in the middle. TIA
So, a few days ago I did genetic testing to see if my baby would have any disabilities. The numbers came back higher for Down syndrome and I now have to speak to a counselor about my options as far as continuing this pregnancy. The midwife said it isn't a final diagnosis, and it still makes me wonder. I'm not sure exactly how to take this, I'm thinking of getting a second opinion. Has this happen to anyone you know, or has anyone experienced this before and received a good outcome? I don't want to terminate my pregnancy and then chances are I could have had a healthy baby. All my sonograms are amazingly fine, the baby is always described as perfect as no one in mine/ or my child's father family has ever been diagnosed with Down Syndrome and it's supposed to be passed through genetic. I need advice 😕
Guys if I was looking at a place to rent on Craigslist and I go to click on the ad again and this pops up does that mean it's a scam?? I need to know because my boyfriend and I have been talking to the person !!
*UPDATE* Ladiessssss so I was debating on sharing this information as it means a lot to me so at my anatomy appointment they are referring me to get a second more detailed sonogram specifically for the babies heart. They are telling me that my babies heart is undelvoped on the left side and that it is possible that she will need heart surgery after i deliver. There sending me to a whole nother hospital and the damn doctor even said that i might wanna consider ending my pregnancy 😩 smh all this is news i don’t wanna hear bc everything else with this baby is perfectly fine ! Even her heartbeat ! I most definitely don’t even wanna think about ending my pregnancy!!! So I’m confused at this point i never been through this before . I definitely need this second look bc I’m so scared . Please keep me in your prayers 🙏🏽
rose·
They told me the same thing, and they wanted me to do the amino test, and too see a genetic counselor... But in all I found it pointless bc I can't change it if it's going to happen! I was literally crying bc I didn't knw how it happen but I eventually just stopped bc I didn't want to harm my baby... I still haven't had her but I'll keep you updated on how she is... But don't worry everything will come out fine just have faith and leave it all up to God! 😄 @mandynicole
Mandy·
Мама сына (4 года)
@blondieenj, oh wow! My mother said she didn't know she was pregnant at ALL until she was 5 1/2 months pregnant with my older brother either and she drank when she went to happy hour with her coworkers and never felt anything significant to make her think she were pregnant. She was scared too, that maybe her lifestyle and lack of being aware could harm baby and my brother is 29 now and healthy as ever. I'm so glad you gave birth to a healthy little girl. God bless you! I'm praying hard that my son will be healthy and overcome all the odds too!
Mandy·
Мама сына (4 года)
@courtneywarner, that is a relief to hear. Thank you so much for that. Even a 1% chance would still be unsettling to hear for anyone and any mother would take any kind of defect to heart knowing all we can ever hope for is a healthy strong baby. I'll try and stay positive and pray that just like yours turned out wonderfully that my son's diagnosis miraculously heals too. Thank you for sharing your experience doll!
Lauren🖤·
You're welcome. I hope and pray it all works out 💕
Mandy·
Мама сына (4 года)
@autumnsmomma125, thank you sweetheart. I appreciate your kind words. I'm a nervous wreck just imagining anything wrong and I will pray hard that whatever the outcome that I can cope with it by the time baby arrives and wait patiently to see if the calcium disappears in time. Thank you again.😘
Nayeli Jurado·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I don't have any experience on this but if it helps here is my story; I didn't know I was pregnant until I was almost 5 months. That means that when I had headaches and stomach aches I would take pills. I would drink and even worked 6 days a week 12 hour shifts. They said my baby would have some kind of birth defect because of all the medicine I took and the alcohol. I prayed every day! My baby will be 2 months old tomorrow and she is as healthy as she can be. Pray. Pray lots and don't cry or stress it's not good for the baby. Your baby will be fine just pray and talk to your baby because no matter what you that's still your baby. Good luck momma everything will turn out ok! 💕
Courtney Warner·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
They told me that my perfect 4 year would have down because she had markers on her heart her kidneys and lungs and thats all signs so the specialist told us to abort and I straight up said fuck you thats my child with or without health issues so dont listen to then my healthy 4 year old proved all of them wrong!!!
Lauren🖤·
I'm sorry momma 💕 and I'm sorry that I don't have any experience on this but try to relax. And I'll pray for you and baby💖 stressing won't help baby or you. And like you said it's out of your hands. But God will help y'all through this. He has a plan for y'all.