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im just so mad at this point I baby sit my nephew EVERY DAY since he was born ... he doesn't listen to anyone.. Im…

im just so mad at this point I baby sit my nephew EVERY DAY since he was born ... he doesn't listen to anyone.. Im having major tummy issues today been running to the bathroom and look what he's doing to my mother's stove and her spoons .. this happened in 5 minutes of me being in the bathroom.. im crying because I feel like he just doesn't care and no matter what I say to him or my family everything is all my fault

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shelyndra

ShelyndraВ ожидании первенца

I could imagine what you have to put up with. I wonder whats going to happen once she gets here if things are going to change.

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@shelyndra, I just can't wait to have my daughter maybe then he will calm down.. he has been so damn naughty since I've been pregnant ... my mom believes he's jealous she asks me to do weird things like massage his back with my saliva? which I won't do.. he calls me mommy so I feel bad but he just doesn't listen and it stresses me out.

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shelyndra

ShelyndraВ ожидании первенца

Thats how my mom is sometime it pisses me off. So what are you planning to do panda?

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@shelyndra, I give him time outs, I take his toys away, I don't let him out.. but like I said it doesn't matter because as soon as my mom's home she let's him do w.e

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shelyndra

ShelyndraВ ожидании первенца

Wow so his mom is completely out of his life? From the looks of it seems like you're going be the one to raise him. How do you disipline him?

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@beyoutiful4589, his dad won't even leave us 10$ to go anywhere he doesn't like leaving money at a ever.. we are always stuck at home ... when we do go outside he tries running into the street or the neighborhood kids bully him.

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@shelyndra, mother isn't allowed to see him she was using meth during her whole pregnancy she lost all parental rights. My brother works all day leaves at 4 am

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blessedmamabear

Blessed Mama BearМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

It's not your fault!! Your doing them the favor by being there with him. I am so sorry you have to deal with that. Try to get out with him. Is it just you and him right now?? Explain to him how bad that is and let him know he is better then that.@mommypanda

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shelyndra

ShelyndraВ ожидании первенца

What does his parents do? That boy is not your responsibility and your family should be ashamed of themselves for not hearing you. Also what about his other side of his family?

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@shelyndra, I have done everything to not watch him like I stated before I have been watching him since he was a newborn. I was 17,working and going to school plus caring for him. I know what it's like to take care of a child. I have left the house on multiple occasions to not watch him only to get kicked out of my house for it. I get treated like complete shit by everyone if I don't watch him. I wake up and he's there what am I suppose to do just leave him alone at the house? I have begged them and told them how depressed I am being home all day no one cares how I feel . they just care that they're saving money and it hurts.. up until I got pregnant i have been fine with baby sitting but ever since he found out im pregnant he's been so incredibly bad.

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shelyndra

ShelyndraВ ожидании первенца

Girl you seriously need to grow some cajones and say you're not watching him. You see your complaining isnt getting you anywhere and you being upset the baby feels all that you feel. If telling them you don't want to watch him isn't working then leave right with them so they will get the point. When your baby gets here you're going to have to watch him 24/7 so I'd say you're getting practice from your nephew. But you obviously don't want to watch the kid take action because they're going to keep leaving him there because you're not doing anything about it. Nothing is going to change if you don't take the first step remember that. Blunt but its the truth.

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@beyoutiful4589, yes and it's all my fault.. no matter what I do its my fault.. im cleaning the house and the bathrooms and he just keeps burning shit.. im crying because it's so stressful to have to deal with him when he's such a brat.

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blessedmamabear

Blessed Mama BearМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I'd**

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blessedmamabear

Blessed Mama BearМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

OMGosh is be pissed!!😳 Have you told his mom or dad? He needs a time out!!

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@kasieerin, even if I refuse they just leave him...

@phoenixmuva, he's 3

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amaresmama

AshleyМама сына-младенца

wss. he need a whooping

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phoenixmuva

DiamondМама дочки-младенца

How old is he?

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kasieerin

Kasie KnowlesВ ожидании первенца

I was 14 when he started being crazy lol I refused to babysit

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@phoenixmuva, if it isn't this it's another thing and it's starting to stress me out...

@kasieerin , yea he doesn't care either.. he knows it's wrong he just doesn't care

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kasieerin

Kasie KnowlesВ ожидании первенца

Yeah no not with mine he didn't care if you took things away didn't phase him... he would still be a little shit... he lies to him mom now and that pisses her off she doesn't know how to deal with him sometimes

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phoenixmuva

DiamondМама дочки-младенца

Wow!

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@hermommy, I put him on time out it never works.. had to call my brother at work now he's going to turn off the stove everyday before he leaves

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missing268user

missing268user

wow, I would've whooped his little tushy and put him in time out. Thats just crazy😩😩😩

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@kasieerin, o trust me I discipline him like time outs,no tv,no toys little stuff like that but as soon as my mom's home she gives him everything and allows him to do w.e

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kasieerin

Kasie KnowlesВ ожидании первенца

my nephew was like that... though we did whoop his ass he still wouldn't listen.. you could punish him in so many ways and he would turn around and do the same thing!! drove my sister nuts!! he's 8 now and still doesn't listen very well..

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@theinkedmommy, he doesn't listen to anyone because my mother made him this way... he was born with meth in his system and taken away at birth to social services .. my mom got custody of him and now she treats him like he's "special" but he's not he's a really smart kid my mother just made him this way

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mommypanda

ileenВ ожидании первенца

@theinkedmommy, not going to be me my mom would whoop my ass and throw me out

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