I could imagine what you have to put up with. I wonder whats going to happen once she gets here if things are going to change.

@shelyndra, I just can't wait to have my daughter maybe then he will calm down.. he has been so damn naughty since I've been pregnant ... my mom believes he's jealous she asks me to do weird things like massage his back with my saliva? which I won't do.. he calls me mommy so I feel bad but he just doesn't listen and it stresses me out.

Thats how my mom is sometime it pisses me off. So what are you planning to do panda?

@shelyndra, I give him time outs, I take his toys away, I don't let him out.. but like I said it doesn't matter because as soon as my mom's home she let's him do w.e

Wow so his mom is completely out of his life? From the looks of it seems like you're going be the one to raise him. How do you disipline him?

@beyoutiful4589, his dad won't even leave us 10$ to go anywhere he doesn't like leaving money at a ever.. we are always stuck at home ... when we do go outside he tries running into the street or the neighborhood kids bully him.

@shelyndra, mother isn't allowed to see him she was using meth during her whole pregnancy she lost all parental rights. My brother works all day leaves at 4 am

It's not your fault!! Your doing them the favor by being there with him. I am so sorry you have to deal with that. Try to get out with him. Is it just you and him right now?? Explain to him how bad that is and let him know he is better then that.@mommypanda

What does his parents do? That boy is not your responsibility and your family should be ashamed of themselves for not hearing you. Also what about his other side of his family?

@shelyndra, I have done everything to not watch him like I stated before I have been watching him since he was a newborn. I was 17,working and going to school plus caring for him. I know what it's like to take care of a child. I have left the house on multiple occasions to not watch him only to get kicked out of my house for it. I get treated like complete shit by everyone if I don't watch him. I wake up and he's there what am I suppose to do just leave him alone at the house? I have begged them and told them how depressed I am being home all day no one cares how I feel . they just care that they're saving money and it hurts.. up until I got pregnant i have been fine with baby sitting but ever since he found out im pregnant he's been so incredibly bad.

Girl you seriously need to grow some cajones and say you're not watching him. You see your complaining isnt getting you anywhere and you being upset the baby feels all that you feel. If telling them you don't want to watch him isn't working then leave right with them so they will get the point. When your baby gets here you're going to have to watch him 24/7 so I'd say you're getting practice from your nephew. But you obviously don't want to watch the kid take action because they're going to keep leaving him there because you're not doing anything about it. Nothing is going to change if you don't take the first step remember that. Blunt but its the truth.

@beyoutiful4589, yes and it's all my fault.. no matter what I do its my fault.. im cleaning the house and the bathrooms and he just keeps burning shit.. im crying because it's so stressful to have to deal with him when he's such a brat.

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OMGosh is be pissed!!😳 Have you told his mom or dad? He needs a time out!!

@kasieerin, even if I refuse they just leave him...
@phoenixmuva, he's 3