Why are so many people against c-sections? I get so many "why? They can probably turn the baby." Um no, they wanted to but there's too many risks. I'm okay with that. "They did this for me or this for my friend". Everyone's situation is different.
I just don't see why it's so hard to accept that people do get c-sections and some people are perfectly okay with having their baby that way.
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@lashellg, 😂 I appreciate my vagina too much. I loved that. I applaud any birth honestly I just don't see why there are those who have to be so negative about something some of us just have to accept.
Girl tell them to kiss ass. I'd rather be cut open than ripped any day lol. The option to either have a c-section or be ripped real bad has stuck with me since my first child. I appreciate my vagina too much for that. I applaude natural birth moms as well. But I love knowing what time and day going show up and not working hard to push lol.
@canaryv, exactly. They keep checking if she turns but nope. That's how I know she's mine and my husbands cause she's a stubborn pain in the butt!
Lol that's a great way to look at it. If I have to have one then I have to have one. Simple as that :) scary sure, but totally worth it in the end 😍
@gab044, @kayloniandkirksmommy @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom @canaryv @irishtwinmom13 @lashellg @cameale81 my dr expected me to cuss her out when I was told it's literally my only option and the receptionist said it's common for people to do that. I know it's scary. I'm a FTM so a c-section is scary in itself for me. The only surgery I ever had was my wisdom teeth. But I'm like y'all, as long as she comes in one piece I'm fine with a c-section. But I just get a lot of negative comments and questions of why my dr can't do better. It's not her fault my baby's a stubborn ass. 😂
I had my daughter via c section. she was breech. my OB and I had just discussed at. my next appointment we would try to flip her. well I didn't make it to my next appointment she noticed my BP was high and so she sent me to L&D to be monitored. came in at 1 to tell me I had preeclampsia and I would be having her that night after clinic closed. that was 11/2/15 I'm due with baby #2 our little boy 10/20/16 but will more likely have him 10/13/16 at 39 weekends c section due to being so soon between pregnancies. unless she lets me opt for a VBAC which I doubt. so yeah things happen. I'd rather not have given birth to a possibly still born baby because she got stuck in my birth canal because my hospital isn't equipt to handle breech births. giving birth is giving birth. you are still bringing life into this world. you just had a lot more at risk and chose a riskier way of bringing your baby into this world for their own safety. yeah women can be selfish and say no I want my birth my way but when it comes to the safety of your baby no mom is gonna risk that.
I think csections are scary but honestly if that was the safest way to have my baby then I'd do it! No point in risking my baby's life, nor mine for that matter, over being afraid of what others may think :) as long as baby gets here healthy it shouldn't matter 💛
I think they get freaked out by the idea of having surgery. I'm not sure though. I had a vaginal birth for my first and a c section for my second and my c section was all together such a better way to go...minus the fact it was an emergency c section at 29 weeks, but I felt like I recovered quicker from the c section, I bled for less time, I was off pain pills quicker than I was with my vaginal birth.
I have a chance at ripping at my incision scar so I opted for a 2nd c section. people have been incredibly negative about it and I was so surprised...I'd rather not have a blood transfusion or something worse happen
my baby came via c section because when they checked me, his head was stuck and was not going to come out vaginally. I don't know why everyone is so crazy about it! my thing is get the baby out safely!
oh the thought terrified me too. my own blood makes me pass out looking at it...my periods are something else haha. so I kept my eyes closed the entire time. as long as my baby girl made it into this world safe and healthy that's all that mattered to me. I hate she women down play any kind of birth saying one is better than the other or how they say c section moms haven't really given birth lol I'm like bitch I was sliced open and had my guts removed to have my baby, that takes courage lol