Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
I just want his arms wrapped around me one last time and hear words come out of his mouth that arent true "I love you".. I miss him so bad. My first love! My first relationship! He was many of my first and I know today isnt even the hardest day yet.. I literally hate that I love him so much.
Mommies please help! I hope at least one of you have dealt with this. Rocky has trouble keeping pacifiers in his mouth but I'm 95% sure he wants a pacie. I try to give him his bottle and he sucks a little but then just lets it sit in his mouth and doesn't drink the formula and just lets it pour out the sides. This is after he's already ate all he wants. But when I give him his pacie, he can't keep it in his mouth.
Mimi·
Gas, ? And a binky, I just set my daughter in her swing because she was doing the same I changed her and laid her in there she's in Now falling asleep lol never mind she opened her eyes
Shannon 🌺💖·
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He hates the binky... I tried the swing.. Swaddled him. He just wants to eat. @mimiz
Mimi·
Ohhhh my its so hard because we can over feed how much are you giving him at a time?
Shannon 🌺💖·
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I know... He's sucking like 10-15 mins each time on each side. He has been pretty much attached to my boob. It's all he wants. First he sucks like I haven't fed him in days But then doesn't want it too much when he has it. @mimiz
Mimi·
My daughter does that she falls asleep so I let her and she'll wake up again with bottles to they're newborns they get tired it doesn't necessarily mean he's filling up he would be taking breaks that's why he seems hungry I give her about an hour to eat what she needs to eat because she starts off super fast then gets lazy on me
Shannon 🌺💖·
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Yeah he usually falls asleep while nursing but he really isn't right now. I wake him up when he does it. I pull him off when he spits up on me or stops and spits it out. He also never spits up or does this. Then I put him down and hes doing it again. I usually feed him every 2-3 hours and this is nuts! Lol. @mimiz
Mimi·
Baby's are confusing but it takes time lol
Shannon 🌺💖·
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I know. Lol. He slept great last night too! @mimiz
Shannon 🌺💖·
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I feel bad, but I'm letting him cry. 😕 I've tried it all and he won't quit. @mimiz
Shannon 🌺💖·
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@theinkedmommy, It's like he's fed and has a fresh diaper... And acting like he hasn't ate at all and I am not feeding him anymore. He just cried for 10 mins straight and turning so red until I picked him up. Ugh, mom life!
Kelly 🌻·
That happened to me the other night it was really frustrating. I actually ended up giving Logan some formula to help fill him up and it helped! If you're not opposed to it and you have some at your house i would try that
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
It might be gas since he's acting different than usual. If he is still fussing and spitting up in the morning I'd call the Dr and just explain what's going on to see if maybe they have any suggestions.
Shannon 🌺💖·
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He has been fine sleeping and eating but tonight is a different story. And I did try burping him, doesn't seem to work. I'll feed and he burps and has been spitting up. It's been all day he's been kinda like this but not as bad. And he pooped a few hours ago so I don't think he's constipated. It makes me sad to see him losing it like this. He's only a week old. @theinkedmommy @michellevaldez4750
Shannon 🌺💖·
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No he's getting enough, I think maybe too much.. Since he's spitting it up. I'm not sure what is going on right now. He sleeps for like 5 mins then wakes up screaming. @kellynicole
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I'd definitely call the pediatrician's office to see if there's anything they can do to help him :'( poor little guy!
Shannon 🌺💖·
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I have him swaddled and I'm holding him right joe and he'd still losing it. I'm prob gonna call. @michellevaldez4750 @theinkedmommy
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I hope they can help! its heart breaking to see your child uncomfortable like that :(
amanda·
Pacy?
Shannon 🌺💖·
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Well last night daddy got up and rocked him and he fell asleep on his chest... But don't want this to happen again!!! @theinkedmommy @michellevaldez4750
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
awe! He just wanted his daddys cuddles. sweet :) but definitely not something you want him to get in the habit of!
Shannon 🌺💖·
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No not at all. Something was going on and I think he finally was able to soothe him and crashed cause he was over tired. And he could prob sense my anxiety and frustration. @michellevaldez4750
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Poor thing :( is he awake yet? How has he been since?
Shannon 🌺💖·
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Yeah he's been up for an hour. And whiny. I'm feeding him now. Fed him before and started to spit it out so I pulled him off and changed him then started to cry and eat his hands. @michellevaldez4750
Taylor Barbee·
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My son did this! His doctor said he is growing and cluster feeds. When they go through this they will want to constantly be close. And a lot of the time they will use the boob for a binki while they fall asleep. My son is 5 months and still does this not as often but still a good bit.
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Hopefully he calms down soon
Shannon 🌺💖·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm hoping that's what this is... But I hope he doesn't keep doing it! @taybugg40