Drama. Having major trust issues. He's the type to have prepared answers and he can lie on the fly. So going to him for answers is a waste of time. I saw that a sex toy had come in the mail which he left in the envelope in his car. I snooped. Not too out of character for him on its own actually. But considering we haven't had sex in, shamefully, just over a year (bad fighting, sick & painful pregnancy, now we're estranged, sleep apart)...so what's he need female vagina balls for? Plus a $30 ras...