Tomorrow my OB is going to start checking my cervix. I've had it checked once when I was around 31 weeks cause I was…

im getting probed too this afternoon... 😒😒 lol ughh! the joys of pregnancy...

I guess I'm doing the nurse a favor lmao

Lol same here. I'm constantly apologizing. But id rather be a little squirmy and freak out and cry about it after wards then be screaming and cussing in her ear lol @emkasting

I always feel pretty embarrassed because I'm a huge pussy about anything that has to go on down there. Like during a Pap smear I'm just a freaking wreck. I can't deal! I bet anyone who has to examine me is like OMG why is this girl pregnant if she can't handle someone's fingers down there 😂 @rileysmomma16 I'm seriously so apologetic afterwards cause I feel bad for being so emotional about it all the time

Oh I know! I'm laying there like is her whole arm in me!?!? She knew I was in pain she just kept saying "I'm sorry hun, I'm sorry." @emkasting

Hopefully you get back in the "mood" after the baby comes and hormones go all back to normal 😄

That's how it was for me too @rileysmomma16. And this doctor had super small hands so I can't believe it hurt so much that I cried!

I'm scared as fuck too. Scuse the language but for real. I had my cervix checked around 29 weeks cause I was complaining of cramping, boyyy did that shit hurt. I'm not looking forward to the next few weeks at all

Lol I don't blame you one bit! It really wasn't too bad till about 3-4 weeks ago. Not only does it hurt like crap now I'm never in the mood. @t1mom

Oh girl, you're brave! Last time i had sex, was when i concieved this baby! lol im too scared!!

I was 50% effaced but not dilated any. @jessica1006 but then again that was when I was about 31 weeks. So I'm hoping for something tomorrow lol @

I don't think I would be too nervous about it if it wasn't for the fact I'm already so sore down there. Sex is pretty much impossible. I just have to get myself mentally prepared for it! Lol @t1mom

Ah that sounds painful! 😭 were you dilated at all?

The one time I had it done she put on gloves, and some lube, and just stuck her hand in me. It was very fast, but extremely painful for me. @jessica1006

I totally understand your fear though! At my last appt, they had to do a transvaginal US to check on the position of my placenta, and the lady just rammed that wand up there! 😣😣 i just turned my head and cried!!

How do they check?! I'm 38 weeks almost 39 and my ob hasn't checked at all! I have an appointment in the morning and I want to be prepared if she does check! I've heard that it hurts but not sure how they check!

It makes me nervous just thinking about it lol! But I'm definitely going to ask! @alexisjadesmommy @t1mom

Ask her to be gentle! lol im sure its not the first time she's had someone ask/say that

I was checked at 21 weeks and the nurse was really rough