To think I was disappointed yesterday when we were an hour late to my parents' for Easter. Now I was just informed that I get to go to yet another baby appointment alone, because my boyfriend wants to drive an hour away to a vape shop. No really. It's cool. This is just our first child and I'm only 32 weeks along. I'm so sick and tired of coming second in his life.
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@warfordmomma, neither do I. One would assume. I dunno. I'm just annoyed and upset.
@cmckinley, I don't know what that is bc I don't vape but there's gotta be some that have it that are closer you would think!
@warfordmomma, I know.! But he wanted to go to a different one because they have flat wire or something. I don't know.
there are so many vape shops in fw tho!
@cmckinley, well good luck to you, hopefully he listens and respects your wishes!
It is stressful going alone. But I've never had to actually go alone. Mine goes to them all. And because he drive was a little ways too from our home
Yea same here, i didn't see the point in him going when they only weigh me, measure my belly & ask questions. He's gone to the very first one, anatomy scan, every ultrasound... & he always asks what every appointment is going to be for & if he should come. I always say no to the one's that are just routine & are just and in & out visit.
@calebsmommy1121, We will be having another talk tonight. Best believe. @babymama85, I'm just exhausted of going alone. I see a midwife and they always ask when he will be coming in with me so we can talk about birth plan and get help in natural birth practices they offer. I always tell them next time, but he always blows it off.
my husband only has been to the important ones. it's my job to keep him up to date
I know everyone is different, but I really couldn't care less if my husband goes with me to my appts. He goes to the important ones, like the first one, anatomy scan, and the later ones when it's close to my due date.
Wow that's still crazy. You should tell him if you and the baby are second in his life than what is he around for. You don't need any stress. If that's the case you should ask will you even be at the hospital when I'm giving birth. These men have totally been acting up lately. Mine too
@calebsmommy1121, I've spoken to him about it on several occasions. He always tells me that Monday is his day off and he wants to spend his time off how he chooses. So when I told him I would just have my appointments while he works, he threw a fit. So I'm completely confused. And it's apparent where me and Zayn stand in his life, his second priority.
Oh wow! Don't get me wrong my boyfriend and I have issues but he went to every appointment with me and is also planning to come with every appointment with me for our new pregnancy. Sit down and talk to him about it
@cmckinley, I don't blame u that's ridiculous