Hey mommies. I have a relationship question. And its kinda long so sorry in advance. So ive been with my hunny for 5 yrs this may. 2 yrs ago we moved back home with my grandparents for various reasons but only wanting to stay for about 6 months but we are still here. Ever since we've moved back, we do nothing but fight. All day. Every day. He has become so lazy. He leaves 4am every day for work. Doesnt get home til 5:30pm. Sits in the bathroom for 2 hours playing clash of clans. Showers. Comes to eat(still playing his game) then goes to bed. We have 2 kids whom he never sees. I feel like im always begging him or forcing him to spend any amount of time with them and i know i shouldnt have to nor do i want to but its the only way i can get anything done. We mainly fight about money bc im a sahm. But when i was working, it didnt work out bc he wasnt home in time for me to leave for work(we worked opposite shifts cuz i dont want my kids in daycare). My grandparents are gone the winter months in FL so i get no help with my kids at all and its exhausting so we fight about that. I just feel like everything is going down hill. Idk if its just a rough patch or what but idk how much more i can take! To those of you who have been in longer relationships, have you hit a 2yr long rough patch before?! Or has anyones relationship changed for the worse when kids were born??? I know he loves his kids to death. And i love him with everything i have. But i wont sit here and be susie homemaker and doing everything like a single mom while he is here with me. Im fed up. Please. Some advice is needed. Thank you all and sorry again for being so long!!