need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
I need some advice my ex and I broke up November 27th and we haven't gotten along at all since we have fought almost ever day since we broke up and its about everything but our daughter. Now I have this great opportunity to move to New York with my sister and work in one of the biggest hospitals. He is telling me I can't take my daughter with me when this move can benefit from my kids and me. I've decided I'm going to go means I will be leaving in 2 months. But he's telling me if I leave he will take my daughter from me what should I do? Neither one of us has custody of her yet. Plus I have a son with another man and he is letting me take my son.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Zabryna·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
When I was with my ex everything got so much worse when my oldest was born. He became emotional abusive. He started drinking heavily. I was a sathm too still am. He would come home drunk at 3am wake up the baby then scream at her to shut up. I was constantly cleaning because be would destroy the house with dirty laundry and dishes. I came to my senses and left when I was pregnant with my second. To this day he still isn't interested in his girls. doesn't give a damn about them. I've learned through 2 years with him that actions speak louder than words if you have to beg him to be there and help chances are he doesn't want to. My advice would be sit down after the kids go to bed and talk to him. Tell him how you're feeling see if his actions change if not you have your answer.
missing241user·
People still religiously play clash of clans after the stupid update?
liz·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Sorry ladies. Its been crazy in my house. But @harpierae i know hunny loves his kids more than anything. And he has days even weeks when hes literally #1 dad. But then theres weeks hes the laziest person ive ever seen. And i know things are so stressful and when things are like that, hes shuts me out. If he has a bad day, he will take it out on me being so emotianally abusive. He apologizes later for it explaining the situation but still doesnt make it better. We had a talk yesterday and he supposedly understands why im so upset and says hes going to change things so lets see what changes.
liz·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@theemmariefactor, yes. They deff do. Im just lucky my hunny doesnt blow our money on the game like some people. His coworker has been playing it for about a month and has already put $1000+ into it!!!! Like really?? Youve got money to blow like that? Please send it my way then! Lol. Its crazy how addicted to that game people get