Hey mommies. I have a relationship question. And its kinda long so sorry in advance. So ive been with my hunny for 5 yrs this may. 2 yrs ago we moved back home with my grandparents for various reasons but only wanting to stay for about 6 months but we are still here. Ever since we've moved back, we do nothing but fight. All day. Every day. He has become so lazy. He leaves 4am every day for work. Doesnt get home til 5:30pm. Sits in the bathroom for 2 hours playing clash of clans. Showers. Comes to eat(still playing his game) then goes to bed. We have 2 kids whom he never sees. I feel like im always begging him or forcing him to spend any amount of time with them and i know i shouldnt have to nor do i want to but its the only way i can get anything done. We mainly fight about money bc im a sahm. But when i was working, it didnt work out bc he wasnt home in time for me to leave for work(we worked opposite shifts cuz i dont want my kids in daycare). My grandparents are gone the winter months in FL so i get no help with my kids at all and its exhausting so we fight about that. I just feel like everything is going down hill. Idk if its just a rough patch or what but idk how much more i can take! To those of you who have been in longer relationships, have you hit a 2yr long rough patch before?! Or has anyones relationship changed for the worse when kids were born??? I know he loves his kids to death. And i love him with everything i have. But i wont sit here and be susie homemaker and doing everything like a single mom while he is here with me. Im fed up. Please. Some advice is needed. Thank you all and sorry again for being so long!!
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Sorry ladies. Its been crazy in my house. But @harpierae i know hunny loves his kids more than anything. And he has days even weeks when hes literally #1 dad. But then theres weeks hes the laziest person ive ever seen. And i know things are so stressful and when things are like that, hes shuts me out. If he has a bad day, he will take it out on me being so emotianally abusive. He apologizes later for it explaining the situation but still doesnt make it better. We had a talk yesterday and he supposedly understands why im so upset and says hes going to change things so lets see what changes.
People still religiously play clash of clans after the stupid update?
When I was with my ex everything got so much worse when my oldest was born. He became emotional abusive. He started drinking heavily. I was a sathm too still am. He would come home drunk at 3am wake up the baby then scream at her to shut up. I was constantly cleaning because be would destroy the house with dirty laundry and dishes. I came to my senses and left when I was pregnant with my second. To this day he still isn't interested in his girls. doesn't give a damn about them. I've learned through 2 years with him that actions speak louder than words if you have to beg him to be there and help chances are he doesn't want to. My advice would be sit down after the kids go to bed and talk to him. Tell him how you're feeling see if his actions change if not you have your answer.
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@theemmariefactor, yes. They deff do. Im just lucky my hunny doesnt blow our money on the game like some people. His coworker has been playing it for about a month and has already put $1000+ into it!!!! Like really?? Youve got money to blow like that? Please send it my way then! Lol. Its crazy how addicted to that game people get