Pissed that my mom has given up on life and chooses to be rude and disrespectful and piss and shit on my couch and on my floor and I can't let my daughter play and crawl around the living room and she can't touch her grandmother because she refuses to wash her hands or use sanitizer or wear her depends like it's not fair my 13 year old who has always known my mom to be strong and never give up now hears her say oh well I can't wait to die. My mom can still walk and talk and she has 3 grand kids one graduating from high school and one jr high and she doesn't care. And this all stems from the betrayal of her long time friend and her man who are now in a relationship. I just can't respect her giving up on life behind a man she did not get this down and out when she lost her only son. I'm so mad, hurt and angry that she doesn't even care that she is hurting me and my kids so I have asked her to leave my home and go stay in a facility because I will not subject myself and my kids to this emotional abuse and bad energy. I have asked and given her plenty of time to get back on track and she hasn't so now it's time for tough love. She will see how assisted living works for her. Tonight was the last straw when she told me that she would take the scissors that she was cutting on her clothes with and shove it in my chest. She's too emotionally unstable right now for me to dismiss that as just her taking shit and having a morbid sense of humor esp when she had a dull knife the other day and my dtr said she told her she was gonna come up missing. Can't even be comfortable in my own home around my own mother. Like she didn't raise me to be weak, she was never the mushy mom that dos all the I love you's and babying so now that she's playing the victim looking for extra sympathy and someone to baby her I can't because she is the reason I'm NOT built like that. It hurts to see your hero give up😭😟😞😔