So I went to my appointment today and they told me my baby is under weight so they want me to start drinking these twice daily I think there just being dramatic
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So I just found out that my husband is sleeping with my sister and they are making fun of me.
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
*UPDATE* Ladiessssss so I was debating on sharing this information as it means a lot to me so at my anatomy appointment they are referring me to get a second more detailed sonogram specifically for the babies heart. They are telling me that my babies heart is undelvoped on the left side and that it is possible that she will need heart surgery after i deliver. There sending me to a whole nother hospital and the damn doctor even said that i might wanna consider ending my pregnancy 😩 smh all this is news i don’t wanna hear bc everything else with this baby is perfectly fine ! Even her heartbeat ! I most definitely don’t even wanna think about ending my pregnancy!!! So I’m confused at this point i never been through this before . I definitely need this second look bc I’m so scared . Please keep me in your prayers 🙏🏽
Terri Brown·
@ilyric, thanks you! ☺️
Robbie·
Многодетная мама (6 детей)
the ultrasound can give a weight approximation of 13 ounces up or down. so she could be 5 lbs or she could be smaller. Just keep your head up. They measured my Lil boy at 7 lbs 3 days prior to his birth at 35w3d and he was 7lb 4oz.
Ca·
Мама двоих (2 года, 46 лет)
definitely! happy you feel better! we already have enough to stress over and them making you worry about something like that is dumb.
Terri Brown·
That's what they said and that they can't say she's under weight until the moment she gets here so I feel a lot better now (: @momwife1316
Ca·
Мама двоих (2 года, 46 лет)
ya exactly. she'll probably gain 2lbs just in those 4weeks. @terri17
Terri Brown·
@momwife1316, oh I was crying I felt like I was doing something wrong that it's my fault then my parents told me the Drs were being dramatic and I'm doing fine and that she still has 4 weeks to pack on weight 😊
Ca·
Мама двоих (2 года, 46 лет)
I agree I think its a little dramatic. I was never told to drink it and they knew my daughter was on the smaller side. they just said I was small so she would be too. she ended up being almost 7lbs. which isnt bad. but them making "an educated guess" on an unborn baby can be pretty inaccurate too. Don't stress :)
Terri Brown·
@twinmama510 I think they were just being a bit dramatic and yeah as long as they are healthy and I can take her home in happy 🤗
Ashlie·
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@terri17, yikes. Is that necessary? Well drink up darling, maybe that will happen. I was born at 38 weeks and was 5 lbs 4 oz. Everything was fine. I'm hoping that's what happens with my girls (just little) and your as well. ❤️
Terri Brown·
@twinmama510, that's what I said that it's not that small but they said her goal by March 30th is to be 7 pounds and I'm like I don't think that's going to happen 😳
Ashlie·
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I don't think that's too underweight. Better safe than sorry right? It's ok. We're seeing a specialist now, so I have an ultrasound every week. They will measure and weigh them again in about a week and half to see if we've made progress. I bet you'll have a very beautiful petite baby!!! Nothing wrong with that!!
Terri Brown·
@twinmama510, oh I'm sorry 😕 and she's weighing in at 5 pounds
Ashlie·
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@terri17, I drink them too bc my babies bellies are measuring too small. How much does your baby weigh?
Terri Brown·
@breezy81516, I actually really, really like it I wanted to drink them all in like one day 😂