Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
Ahhh life with boys!! Boys are something else I tell u!! I grew up with 3 sisters, one being my twin sister, so the boy thing was new to me. Anyway my 3 year old is newly potty trained so he says he needs to go potty. He’s at the stage where he’s just now going by himself, can wash his hands alone etc. so he comes out of the the bathrooms and says “mom I peed on the wall” sure enough just next to the toilet pee all over the wall!! Any boy moms can relate?!?
#mombassadorchat Moms, Done with diapering? Today we're chatting all things potty training with @smilingwithmyawesome4kids, who is a mombassador and admin of the very popular potty training group in the app. Share your potty training stories, ask questions and share tips on this post. @smilingwithmyawesome4kids will also answer any questions! Here's her bio and general tips: Hello I am Ceiamaria I am a stay at home Mother to 4 children ages 12,8,7 and 11 months old. I am happily married for 12 years and we are still going strong. I am determined and driven for success FAILURE isn't an option for me. I potty trained my oldest at 9 months old. My 2 middle son's were more difficult they were between 18 months and 2 years old. My baby boy was showing interest in potty training, I decided to buy him a potty chair. Potty training tips 1.) Don't rush your child 2.)Don't yell at your child 3.) Don't punish your child for having accidents 4.) Don't give you child candy 5.) Don't compare other children to your child 6.) Do praise your child 7.) Clap your hands when your child goes to the potty. 8.)Take your child every 15-30 minutes to the potty 9.)Don't criticize your child 10.) I don't recommend pull ups but I don't bash mothers who decided to use them. 11.) Remember potty training is not taught in one day you have to be determined to potty train your child. Add your replies in the comments below! Thank you @smilingwithmyawesome4kids !
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@missdee, wow!! i would never do that! i understand how that would be annoying. im going to school for early childhood development to work in daycares...as a start. he has a late birthday so its gonna be awhile before school happens because of maryland and their laws
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@3.26.16, the only thing we dont have down is getting up at night and going when we are out in public on his own. we have our good weeks and then its bad weeks too.
Dee·
В ожидании первенца
Three year olds can do a lot! He should at least be day trained. I'm a teacher and having taught 3's it was annoying that some parents would send them to school in pull ups. 😕 At night the pull ups at that age are ok cause they are accident prone.
kc ·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (40 нед.)
he should be. my son has been fully potty trained since 18 months. he'll be 3 in may.
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@lashellg, yeah true. they gotta stop rushing it though.
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@eve42013, you will!! keep up the good work
dylisha·
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
Boys tend to take longer also. Plus I done my daughter the same way even though she was fully trained by the age of 3. You never know.
Demetria·
Мама дочки (10 лет)
Oh ok. And it's hard when everyone isn't on the same page with helping as well. To make sure he using potty at all. Like when he stay with family N all.
eve42013·
Мама двоих (младенец)
i hope i get there soon
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@msprettyinpink, his birthday late so its gonna be awhile. yeah thats true and i understand that but he almost there and got a long way to go before school comes in to play
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@eve42013, its on their time. he is getting better but has moments where he doesnt but something is better than nothing.
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@gypsy.soul2, thank you!!
Demetria·
Мама дочки (10 лет)
They probably don't mean any harm. They probably a little concerned cause when he starts pre-k he have to be fully potty trained
eve42013·
Мама двоих (младенец)
im on the same boat, i fee like society pushes us to do things to fast when actually is up to oyr kids.... i tried when my daughter was 1 yr failed. Tried again at 2 yrs failed tried again at 2 1/2 failed so I hope she will let me know...Good luck
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
sometimes their parts aren't completely grown to signal to them when it's time to go. my daughter is 2.5 and today just started sitting on her potty when I go potty. people just don't get it sometimes... that's not your problem
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@lil_bigmama, lmao
lil_bigmama·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
do like I do would they like 2 try to take them 4 a weekend & try picking them up caring them to the potty at night lol they shut up really quick like
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@lil_bigmama, exactly!!! like i wish they would stop and just be quiet!
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@reaganmommy2015, lol he knows he just get preoccupied that it doesnt cross his mind with a pull up on. but when he has on underwear he is going and have accidents here and there.
lil_bigmama·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
my is 3 will b 4 in July & we r in this boat together it's all up 2 ur kid really when they want 2 go potty
Andrea M·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
@gypsy.soul2, someone understands!! He wont when he is playing so i tell him. i feel.he is getting there and should not be rushed.
Martee 💋💋·
Мама троих детей
Both my older kids learned when they were 4 they were both very stubborn
Elle🌻·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
no. they'll learn when they're ready.