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My mom wants to fly up here for 10-14days after the baby is here to help around the house..but she want to come right…

My mom wants to fly up here for 10-14days after the baby is here to help around the house..but she want to come right when I know I'm in labor😒 it's nice she wants to help but I think I want to bond with the baby just me and my husband at least for a week before she comes because I know she's going to hog the baby when she gets here😐

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whitneym

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@answeredprayer16, oh yeah smh my mom is the same was smh. Sorry I just saw this

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h_mother0322

GabiВ ожидании первенца

Yea it scared me because he wouldn't stop trying && he followed me for minute, haven't been back since then but me and my son go make out there, summer time fine mama🙌🏽😊

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shauntaet

salinaВ ожидании первенца

@answeredprayer16, haven't seen my mom since my son was 3 that's when we left Miami

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shauntaet

salinaВ ожидании первенца

@answeredprayer16, yes we're very close haven't seen her in years

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answeredprayer16

KatelynВ ожидании первенца

Lmao yeah. I rarely go to the beach for that whole month. I hate when people scream "where you from" and them yell with amazement when I say "here" @h_mother0322 that's good you must have a good relationship with her then 😊@shauntaet

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h_mother0322

GabiВ ожидании первенца

Lol I haven't been to Panama for spring except when I was in 9th grade && it was worst thing every. Old man trying talk to me

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shauntaet

salinaВ ожидании первенца

@answeredprayer16, I'm looking forward to my mom coming in May she lives in Florida so she doesn't see us often

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answeredprayer16

KatelynВ ожидании первенца

Oh I know I lived there my whole life lol I'm from spring break capital (Panama City) 😊@h_mother0322

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h_mother0322

GabiВ ожидании первенца

Ohhhh that something y'all have work out, back & forth, she come visit you && you go visit her. I would use that as my vacations, she get her baby time && you can get your away time because Florida weather can be stress relieving when it's not raining

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answeredprayer16

KatelynВ ожидании первенца

Yeah I just kinda feel bad cause she won't see my kid often at all. She lives in Florida @h_mother0322 and it's not like I'd go there because I don't have a free place to stay there since she lives in a camper until they build their house 🙄😒 it's just a sad situation.

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answeredprayer16

KatelynВ ожидании первенца

Dang I was typing too fast I have so many spelling errors. Haha sorry @whitneym

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answeredprayer16

KatelynВ ожидании первенца

Yeah I don't feel like I'll need help. Nobody helped me when I moved out, the other help I really had when she gave me her bed and when I gave it back to her. She would always tell me she'd come fill my house with groceries at least once and the only time she ever came to my house was for a Christmas lunch an they left early to go to their friends house as she only lived 30mins away then😠 the one thin I'm most worried about is her promising my kids something when their older and not following thru. She did that my whole life. So now I don't get excited like she expects me to cause I have to see it to believe it @whitneym

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h_mother0322

GabiВ ожидании первенца

Try talk her before she come down, she might get little mad but she should understand. One thing with me being pregnant, I'm very honest when my family say something to me. Number one reason haven't been getting along with anybody in my house && I feel like it's gone get worse when my son get here && my family try be in his face, so called trying help me. I know if it annoyed me when I was pregnant it's gone annoy me when it come to him.

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answeredprayer16

KatelynВ ожидании первенца

At least that's an option lol idk why family thinks we want to entertain them after all that. My mom says she's stopped smoking but my stepdad still smokes so I know she'll smell like it. I haven't lived with her in almost three years so I can't stand the smell and I don't want her breathing on my baby if she still does. Plus she has a drinking problem and I have zero tolerance of that now because I've had to deal with it my whole life when I lived with her @h_mother0322 I think 10 days is almost pushing it honestly

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whitneym

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@answeredprayer16, yeah parents are like that. Just tell them besides the baby will just want to sleep all the time anyway. And so will you

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answeredprayer16

KatelynВ ожидании первенца

My mom can be overbearing and she just gets on my nerves a lot. She thinks she still knows me but she honestly doesn't 🙁@whitneym

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h_mother0322

GabiВ ожидании первенца

My aunt && her kids want come right after I have him, my grandparents the same but for 3 weeks. I honestly don't want them to come my auntie && her kids annoy me. My grandparents always arguing. To sum it up they all annoy me && I don't want them be annoying me and my child. My mama talking about they not 😒, I told her if they annoy me I'm just gone leave && go my baby daddy house.

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whitneym

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@answeredprayer16, I made my parents wait a week also

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