i wish i understood how a guy mind works. i dont understand why a guy thinks its okay to look up their ex girlfriend on…

@sheebster, I don't talk to any of my ex. once I leave you. we are done and will never be talking to u....

Oh I hate that shit ugh but god forbid an ex calls us all hell breaks loose! @babytj0214

he is taken so go away!!!!!!!

@jessicahartze, @ljsilver @sheebster omg ladies! theres this girl, my husbands friend, text him and calls him twice or 3 times a year. that's not a lot but they used to go out and she calls him for car questions and blah blah. I'm like u have a bf go ask him for shit. my man never ever calls her or text her first. she does and it makes me sooooo mad!

I am with you completely!!! @ljsilver just admit yeah I was looking her up. Yeah I am attracted to her. Like man up. Shit. My man will call me out on looking at a guy and I'll be like yeah I was I'm not gonna hide it. But he does. Like I seen you staring at her ass lmao why lie. It's crazy how guys are. But us women are the crazy ones 😅@

@sheebster, its like your reading my mind lol. he knows i go through his phone its just why keep that in your history and to.try and cover it up with a lie just makes everything worse. but oh well. his ex is a slut to and he says he doesnt want her back i guess time will tell thats all. its hard wheb your pregnant to even feel remotly pretty and i thibk thats why i.got more upset than anythingb

@sheebster, its like your reading my mind lol. he knows i go through his phone its just why keep that in your history and to.try and cover it up with a lie just makes everything worse. but oh well. his ex is a slut to and he says he doesnt want her back i guess time will tell thats all. its hard wheb your pregnant to even feel remotly pretty and i thibk thats why i.got more upset than anythingb

I know exactly how you feel I guess that's why I'm so happy he lost his phone and doesn't have one @ljsilver he doesn't talk to this ex but knowing he was looking at her pictures just upset me bc she's skinny but she doesn't have a pretty face well to me anyway. She just has a nice body. But she's a slut. I'm not worried about the cheating at all I just get upset bc I don't feel the best and clearly she's got her confidence and it just upsets me. She's got a boyfriend. They aren't even friends on Facebook but for him to look her up made me question like why? I don't go and look up my Exs on here in fact their all blocked. It's just annoying but I feel you on the past stuff. I've been through some shit and just the little things set me off. Doesn't help being bipolar and these crazy hormones lmao

hell yeah go through his phone, that doesn't mean there isn't trust, I trust my man not to talk to other women and not to cheat, but if I ever feel insecure I can look and see that I'm just being silly. nothing wrong with it. I let him do the same

@sheebster, this is why i hate social media. im not ashamded to admit i go through his phone but he knows i do and of course there are ways for him to delete stuff and i would never even know

yeah guys just are assholes pretty much. im not worried about him cheating on me with her because she lives in another state im more worried that he is still talking to her and this isnt the first time that shes been brought back into his life. if i really wanted to be super crazy i would message her and ask but i dont know if i want to know the answer. i love him very much and would never leave him he is amazing this is just something that i will never get out of my head especially when ive been hurt in the past so many times by people who say they love me@carlitojrmami

Omg someone shares my logic!! I dealt with the same shit not too long ago!! @ljsilver

what a jerk please don't let it stress u