Ok I'm in a very awkward situation.....my BF's mom started back talking back to his ex (his first son's mom) to develop…
Ok I'm in a very awkward situation.....my BF's mom started back talking back to his ex (his first son's mom) to develop a relationship for the sake of her grandson....ok I get that. His ex reached out to me, we've texted a few times (very minimal contact) I really don't trust her because she has gone on record as stalking me, and saying she hated me because I was with my BF when they broke up during the final months of her pregnancy. She seems a tad bit wishy washy about my pregnancy (her son is 1 and will be 2 next month) when she first saw me face to face for the first time and saw my ultrasound pics (his mom showed her) she said my baby didn't favor my BF like her son does. She brought over some food for me and afterwards we found out she was sick with a virus (probably coughed on my food). She tells his mom she's over my BF and never loved him and is so in love with her new BF but it's like she stays calling his mom, she stays talking down on my BF, she stays trying to find out about my pregnancy, and his mom swears that she believes that she's over my BF.....does all this sound weird? Does it sound like she's over my BF?

T·
Hell naw she ain't she one of those fake needy bm keeping up shit to get under ur skin pay her ass no mind 💯
Beonka·
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@faith0113, That's what I think, but his mom thinks otherwise and actually believes her. She's 22 and dating a 50 year old guy and swears up and down she hates my BF and always talks so much shit about my BF.....it's so weird how she calls his mom (different times of the night and morning) his mom is going for it but something rubs me the wrong way about it
T·
Yea that sound crazy asl she getting calls like she the bd but she was there first u know how some mamas be i don't care who u get wit it'll neva be "so and so" all territorial and shit but if it's strictly about the baby damn how much calling and convos it needs to be if he not doing shit it sholl count for sum cus his mama on demand as far as ole girl sees it obviously sum was wrong wit the relationship before u got there and his og need to stop playing both sides and acknowledge that her son know wats right sorry for the long letter lol but ppl like ha bothers me ughhhh
Beonka·
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@faith0113, his mom and her were close when him and her were together and I understand she loved her like a daughter but she's really vindictive and she took his son from him for some months and basically said fuck his mom. They're just now starting back talking really. I mean some stuff is necessary but other stuff is taking things a bit too far. Like calling his mom to vent about her new BF and his kids, or calling to try to drop her son off on his mom or my BF on her court appointed days so she can go spend time with her BF who doesn't like it when her son is around (he's 50 and can't handle a 1 year old) and like I said she's trying too much to know about my pregnancy and me.....I get a bad vibe from her and I don't trust her
C💞·
@beezy_mcflyy, watch her ass I'm sorry but i wouldn't be eating no food she brought and I for damn sure wouldn't even be talking to her the mothers contact is enough. Your pregnancy your business I had to tell my mother in law stop telling all my pregnancy related business. If she asked about the baby it should be a he/she is fine end of story. But I would watch her I seen enough lifetime movies to know crazy 😂😂 but in all seriousness
Beonka·
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@tezsmomma, Oh I watch her alright...I didn't eat the food, but the fact she bought it was awkward enough. And his mom suggested we texted because her son is around me the majority of the time when my BF is at work on his court appointed days (we're trying to get those days off or work the least amount of hours on those days) she calls me her "Co-Mom" and has even offered to take me out to eat and honestly the shit is too weird! Something is off about all this! 1 you call his mom morning and night, 2 you claim you never loved my BF but if my memory serves me correctly you tried to use that baby as a tool to keep him coming back to you (hell we even broke up for a few months so he could try to work it out for their son!), you broke down crying in his living room and sang to him how I was his mistress and how you loved him.......sooo now she's dating a 50 year old (and she isn't happy) you wanna call my BF's mom and pretend like you are and just talk shit on your baby's daddy? Nah bitch you still got feelings, and you can't believe we're having a baby!!
C💞·
@beezy_mcflyy, this is a perfect example of keeping your friends close but enemies closer she waiting on you to fuck up or an opportunity to present it self the talking bad on him is really just her way of still talking about him she want him and forget all that co mommy stuff see her ass would be best if it was me cause I don't play that shit we not friends you know who I am and you know your son is safe. I'm still stuck on her trying to give you food that would make you sick on that alone I would have. Two pieced her ass into next week.
Beonka·
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@tezsmomma, I was ready too!! But his mom was all "oh I'm sure she didn't mean it" ....then she thought about it and was like "yeah that kinda was fucked up" like I said something seems off, I don't like the shit, and regardless of what his mom says I think she has alterer motives. She calls his mom asking questions about me and I feel like we're both grown ass women and you have my number....if you wanna know something then call me or ask me directly! And I think you're right about her talking down on my BF.....because if you're over someone you ain't gonna even waste your time talking shit about them (especially to their own momma)
C💞·
@beezy_mcflyy, we all Know what a bm who don't care about what they child father is doing look like and she looking real suspect. and his mother too cause she feeding her info . cut the source off from the head do yal live with his mother ? if so kindly ask her not to discuss you with her and if she has any questions please pass them on to me . because I'm telling you I've seen it she discuss her relationship only so his mama can discuss yours. my mother in-laws has her favorite ex and there are no kids involved I came over to her house me and my husband well boyfriend at the time and the broad was sitting there trying to be friends I beat her and just cause she tried to be funny.
C💞·
@beezy_mcflyy, if yal don't live with her keep out yal business
Beonka·
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@tezsmomma, we live with his parents for now....and I've told her not to discuss our business......I just don't trust this girl, I don't trust this co-mom shit, and I don't trust her trying to be friends.....she was stalking me a few months ago!!!!
C💞·
It's not much you gonna be able to do because you live with her but ask not to be discussed with her. What does your man say about this cause I know he see the shade. She keep discussing your business it maybe time to have him say something because obviously she won't listen @beezy_mcflyy
Beonka·
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@tezsmomma, he says she's jealous, dirty, manipulative, and she's only calling his mom because she can't get over I'm pregnant
Gabi·
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Sound like my situations I wouldn't trust her
Gabi·
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At all
Beonka·
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@h_mother0322, lol I don't trust her at all
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Even his mother because she shouldn't be doing that, an why is she showing the ex your ultrasound pictures? All she needed to know her son finna be big brother, your his gf && that you'll be around & that it, nothing more or nothing less. If she wanted to know she could've ask you but it's none of her business honestly. I mean she can ask how you doing but that still none of her business because that can be a way to bring you up into the conversation.