Yall I'm so pissed right now! My husband has no respect I swear to god he is annoying some times! My mom called me up and we talked for over 20 minutes. She said she had her stuff packed and ready to leave her bf because of some drama with his grandchild (6yr old calling her a bitch, hitting her, slapping her, and telling her he hates her) so I told her if she wants or ever needs to she can come stay the night or move back it doesn't matter to me that my house is always her home too! She said she took the kid to his mom's work and dropped him off and was on his way back so she decided to stay there for now and she will see what happens. Thays fine. So I went and told my husband and before I could tell him everything about the situation I was pissed cause he opened his big ass mouth and I got defensive! I started to say my mom packed her stuff and was going to come stay here for a night and before I could say she changed her mind he said "Omg! I hope you talked her out of it!". So he apparently is annoyed by my mom. Which I don't really give a fuck if she annoys him she is my mom and is always welcome and no I won't ever "talk her out" of coming to stay! I love when my mom is around! Besides that, I have offered his dad a room in our home multiple times! He and his gf are currently living in our yard in a camper that my mom got them! So how does he have the right to say that? He hopes I changed her mind?!? Haha nah dude you best check who the fu is house this is 😂 this shits mine, my moms, and my sisters. Needless to say I flipped out and made sure he realized how stupid he was for opening his dam mouth🙄 men are so stupid sometimes I swear
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@morgyporgypudninpie, not here to argue, I'm sure you know what I meant by when I say family comes first.... He's married in to her family and OF COURSE a women's children would come first... And besides, it's not his house, like she said it's hers, HER MOMS and her sisters... Have a great day 😃
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@momma2twinies i still rem the night before you went to the hospital you weren't feeling good and i told you better to go in and be safe and the next day you had the babies ❤ ❤ hope you find a little time for you too in the midst of the day .all mom's need it
@sherrynygirl thank you ❤ I appreciate it so much
@remlicious88 thank you❤ how are you doing?
@yazminenewman me too. My mom has always been there for me no matter what. I love her with all my heart. I love my husband too. But my mom is my mom you know. I already lost my dad, i want as much time as possible with my mom so I'll never turn her away and he gets that now thank God cause I wasn't going to let it go
these comments smh, honey I’m happy ya’ll worked it out. but I have to say this, when it comes to your mother... no man should have a say so on whether she can stay or not. I would leave with my mother before I tell her she can’t live with me because of what my husband said. I’m baffled at women saying you need consent from your husband. Hell no, you only have one mother.. that has alwaysssss been there! I would never
@momma2twinies thats wats up...u n your fam is the shit 😊
@momma2twinies your doing a great Job with your twins and keeping your family together 👼 always in my prayers
@johnsonarriel24 it was given to me. And I let them move in it
@johnsonarriel24 my mom paid for the gas to move it. Her bf went 2hrs away to pull it here.
@morgyporgypudninpie just to give you a bit of background. my husband doesn't work anymore. He was shot in his head back in 2010. He is disabled and cannot even walk now. We live on his ssi. My home was owned by my father until he passed away Oct of 2016 the home and property was left to myself my mother and my older sister. I did work it out with my husband though. Now he understands that he was out of line because I have put up with alot from his family and never said anything and I deserve that same respect
@sherrynygirl thank you. He understands now that he was out of line to say that considering what I've done for his family
@momma2twinies wait your Mom paid for ur hubbys dads camper?
@remlicious88 we have worked it out though. He understands now that he was out of line
@diegosmommy0213 it's ok. We worked it out after I tripped lol he understands now that it's not right for him to say things like that
Oh wow!... Yea so he really just was outta line saying you should talk your mom out of it.smh that's crazy
@morgyporgypudninpie his dad has lived with us on multiple occasions for free. Never asked anything from him. He actually just moved into the camper a week ago. They were living in my babies room for 2 months prior to that.
@remlicious88 right. Like I allowed his dad to live with us for free many many times in the past. Never said anything. When his dad and gf said they had no where to go I gave them a room in my home for free. Then my mom found a camper someone was giving away and then moved it here for free and they just have to pay alittle electric. Never in the past or present has he or his gf paid for anything. Rent, food, drinks, electic, nothing. I didn't have a problem with it. I never second guessed it and never thought about turning them away because they annoy me.
@sherrynygirl I'm 25!!! I worked in the public school system for 4 years before I married my husband! But thanks! Lol
@mississippi.mama You look kind of young to understand its Not Kid Shit its real life concerns..When Women aren't Independent or have a career or job...most men will call the shots if you allow.I've always been independent&have a career and know stay at home mom's have it difficult if your spouse leaves you with nothing
@morgyporgypudninpie glad to know I'm not the only one with a traditional marriage ideology.
@momma2twinies .you have a good heart and deal with a lot good for you for standing up
@morgyporgypudninpie but..On her property..We all do what works well for our own family..In every relationship 1 might not have good credit or be responsible enough or good with money so then yeah that decides who calls the house rules in my opinion
My husband owns our home. But I keep it. We make the rules TOGETHER. It's not "Well my name is on this and that, so I'm the boss and I'm in charge.." lol That's kid shit.
@mississippi.mama to a point * if i own this home and my man's name isn't on rental agreement or morgage its my home..and i make the rules regardless
@mississippi.mama, yes u are right but the disturbing part is how he said he hoped she talked her mom put of it but HIS DAD LIVES THERE 😐
A marriage is between 2 people. Not 2 people and his/her/their mom(s), dad(s), sibling(s). Just 2 people.
@remlicious88 .100%agreee
.its her home.her mom and sister's ...not his! And his family is on property wow she has a good heart he has no say so! Women should always have final say so i do in my home !
@morgyporgypudninpie ..to me my children always come 1st then my man then family ..depends on the type of other family...i personally am speaking of my other family i have 1 of my sisters who lives w my mom and verbally abuses her i don't allow her over my home until she learns to be respectful to my mom and in my house..
@morgyporgypudninpie that whole thing wasn't directed towards you, just the first part 😂
@morgyporgypudninpie agreed. My husband invited his uncle to come live with us. Never once consulted with me about it. Communication should be a first priority in any relationship. If you aren't on the same page, you're acting out of spite..
@morgyporgypudninpie, not here to argue, I'm sure you know what I meant by when I say family comes first.... He's married in to her family and OF COURSE a women's children would come first... And besides, it's not his house, like she said it's hers, HER MOMS and her sisters... Have a great day 😃
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