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my baby has been in my bed since birth (5 months ), we tried multiple times to put her in her own bed but it just became…

my baby has been in my bed since birth (5 months ), we tried multiple times to put her in her own bed but it just became easier to sleep together. is it wrong that i dont mind , even at the expense of quality time with her father ? we still get alone time during naps and early bed time but we dont cuddle any more . i just keep telling myself she will only be a baby for so long & being together 8 years , i think we can sacrifice?!

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katienkaden

Katie

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I had our son in bed for a month with us and I had to go to bed at the same time he did because we would snuggle together. Now that I have him sleeping in his bed but in our room, my boyfriend and I get to have some time to ourselves which is nice

theosmommy

Gabriella

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In my opinion, even though I still don't have my baby here, the longer you wait to take the baby out of your bed, the harder it will be.. for you and for your baby. 😞 We will have to have our baby in our bedroom for a while, because we live in a 1 bd apartment.. but as soon as he is born, I'll start looking for a bigger apartment just so he has his own bedroom when he turns 3 months old.. (but this was a common decision between me and my husband.. whatever works for you and yours 😉)

royalprincessmommy

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@theosmommy, 😭😭😭 she has had her own bedroom since forever, has 3 different things she can sleep in and idk why i still have her in my bed . im breastfeeding so i think i use that as an excuse, but im so undecided, so edays i want her out, somedays im like no way !! smh

cloughgal

cloughgal

Мама троих детей

My little guy will be 5 months on the 15th and we are the same way. Yes he has his own room, plenty of options of things to sleep in including a bassinet and crib in my room...yet he sleeps with us. Sometimes he will sleep in his own bed in our room until about 2-3am and then when he gets up for a feeding he just stays in bed with us. I wouldn't change a thing. I also have two older boys 18 and 15 I did the same thing with so...do what works for you. I know I am not rushing him growing up, I blinked and my oldest turned 18. I plan on cherishing every moment with this little man.

royalprincessmommy

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@cloughgal, thank you, much appreciated 😊 & congrats btw !!

cloughgal

cloughgal

Мама троих детей

@royalprincessmommy, you are most welcome and thank you :)

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