So me and hubby decided on londyn valentina for baby girl.. Mind you we havent told family yet, so my cousin goes oh im having a girl and we are namimg her londin valentina... I was so upset angry and mad i was hooked on that name for baby girl 😭😭😭😭 so now we cant use it so we just decided to name baby girl violet. Dont get me wrong i love the name violet also.. But i was so stuck with valentina... Sorry ladies had to vent anyways baby girl name will be violet now 💜💜
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Why not still use Valentina? I mean it's just a middle name. Violet Valentina goes together well!
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That’s a very bitch thing to do. I know someone that would do that very thing so I know the feeling but just name your baby what you want and if she doesn’t like it, who cares
Hubby and i have names picked out, but his siblings are done having kids. And my siblings and I discussed what names we were gonna pick out. And the names we have picked out his side hates. And my side cousins wise are done having kids.
This is the name your daughter will have for the rest of her life. You better love it and choose your 1st choice! F your cousin...keep your name choice. Unless you like Violet better. It's your choice.
Family sucks. I personally love the name Violet more than Londyn though. It's really a beautiful name. Why not Violet Londyn or Violet Valentina?
I love Violet! Hey, why can’t Valentina be her middle name? My son’s first name is his cousins middle name- both family names.
That was a bitch thing to do. She sounds like she's something else. Violet is pretty though.
Ok i dont get why people says shes messed or that its not right that she did this did u read the post she said she didn’t tell family soo the cousin did not know she was choosing that name!!
Exaclry i didnt tell no one baby girls name yet, but i guess i dont need to be stressing out
thats pretty messed up that she went and did that, personally i love the name violet. It’s pretty and it sounds right for any age .
I remember when i found out i was having a girl and my sister in law asked what i was naming my daughter which is Sofia and she made a comment oh it’s almost like the name i have picked out which was sofiana and said i should pick something else, mind you she wasn’t even pregnant lol i still named her what i wanted.
For real, and she says im petty cause i supposedly took the name from her idk see how cause one she was gonna find out what the baby was and im the one who came up with it first, but im petty? okay! Lmao i dint need to be stressing over this crap 😥😥😴😴😑
@mommycusses, if you really love them name use it, you know it was her that stole it from you. She’s the one that’s petty for trying to steal it from you.
So she knew this was your name choice and still says she’s naming her baby the same thing? Personally I wouldn’t change my choice. Lol you have 9 months to come up with a name and possibly a few after that because I know plenty of people who have took their baby home without a name and didn’t decide on one for months. I think you should be straight up with her... like you knew this was my choice so you need to pick a new name. 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ maybe get some family to convince her to choose a different name as well.
But honestly I like Violet it’s pretty and timeless but it sounds like you really like Londyn Valentina so I’d stand my ground if that’s what you want.
@alicianoelle yeah she knew after the fact that she said she was gonna name the baby that.. Thats when i told her can she changed it because i had that name picked out already that's when my cousin found out i hsd the name... I had to tell her at that point because i had the name first and i thought i could helped her with a other name, but she said no and that i was petty csuse "apparently she had the name first"That's how it went down when she told me what she was naming her csuse of her best friend daughter and they wanted the names to be alike and same and thats when i told my cousin snd i mentioned that to the otjer ladies and yes i did tell mommagicals but she knew after the fact on what i just mentioned
@mommycusses, oh okay! Sorry for the confusion but Violet is beautiful so you win either way.
@alicianoelle @mommycusses you don't think it's odd she came up with the exact same name though? And you said she decided not to find out the sex then she did. The idea she wants a name just like her friend don't add up either. Sounds fishy.
How in the hell did she came up with the same first name and second name🤔🤔 thats soooo freaking weird plus both names are not common
Her friends daughter middle name is londin and first valentina so i guess since their best friends that she wanted their names to be the same but switched around.. Idk but thats the story she told me... I never heard or met this so called friend of hers
after i had my daughter , my fiancé younger brother had a baby & named her after my daughter . my daughters name is A’Meena Renae & my nieces name is Athena Rose with the same last name & it took me awhile to get over that .. i still get mad at the fact they based everything off my daughter , but with my son , nobody will know his full name only his nickname because NOPE not going through that one again .
I hear you! When i hold grudges im.telling you i hold grudges idc if you family or not you on my grudge list.. She knows she on my grudge list
@mommycusses,
yes my boyfriend , already dislikes the girl , iv known her forever & she did that , she knows shes not liked to well in our family .
How the heck did she come up with the same name as you ?? It’s not like it’s a common name
Why not still use Valentina? I mean it's just a middle name. Violet Valentina goes together well!
I havent thought of that but everybody either has the same name either first or middle name in my family kinda want to avoid that eith my kids me ane my cousin first names is christal but i spell mines differnt... Just want the kids to have their own name and not have to share it at all
Thanks i guess it's growing on me.. Yeah i have a pretty lame family it just sucks that you have a name picked out and cant use. But i must say violet is growing on me now 💜💜
@mommycusses you're welcome, I have one sibling and she always wanted to name her daughter Jocelyn. She ended up having 4 boys and then 10 years later I had my daughter and I've always struggled with a girl name but always had a boy name picked out. I knew I wanted Lynn to be in her name after my mother so I called my sister even though she was never having any more children and ask her if I can have it for my daughter and she said yes!!!
Personally I like violet better anyway but that's still pretty lame of her 👀
Yeah i have a pretty lame family... Thanks hun 💜💜💜 its growing on me. But it just sucks to have a name and you cant use
You can name your daughter whatever you want. It doesn’t matter what she names hers. 2 of my cousins have boys with the same name because she told them what she was naming her kid and they stole it. She still named her son the same thing.
@missheatherbaby thanks hun 💜💜😘 i think violet growing on me
@mommycusses, I love the name violet. When I got pregnant with my last daughter we were dead set on naming her London and then I decided I didn’t like it anymore and my husband was pissed. We ended up naming her Madelyn Zuri and I love it.
@missheatherbaby awe she has a real pretty name thats not common but so beautiful
I adore Violet! So much more than the other. It's beautiful, feminine, and will sound great for a sweet baby, a confident college freshman, and an older lady. Perfect! :)
Thanks hun! 💜💜💜 thats what hubby said also
They can be very close cousins with the same name maybe 🤷🏾♀️
Not a bad idea but eveybody in my family and hubby's family has close or the same names.. Example i have 2 Christians on my side he has 2 Christian on his side.. Our daughter middle name is rose his cousin middle name rose .. I just want to be able to name this baby without her having to share a name
@mommycusses, ohhh I seee ,,, only way to avoid it is going exotic lol
@mamaof2soon lmao yeah correct😂😂😍😍💜💜
Yeah she knows. I doubt it she is due 2 weeks before me she decided to found out the sex of the baby after she said she wasn't .. Im due july 23rd she due july 6th.. We shall see... I love violet also 😥😥😥 decisions decisions
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How the heck did she come up with the same name as you ?? It’s not like it’s a common name