So I've made a huge step and told babies auntie about him! (Babies dads family didn't know as he has never told them)…

Awe hun, sorry to hear this! But you are right! At least you have tried! What about thr grandparents? xx

I have no way of contacting them @winterbaby95 I know she will probably tell them, so it's really just a waiting game to see if I actually get a reply. Not counting on it though! Took me almost my whole pregnancy to find the courage to tell them and now I wish I never even bothered! Feel so heart broken for my son! Xx

@beccastirlingx I know it is heart breaking hun. But if they can't be bothered. It just goes to show! All he needs is his mummy in his life xD You will be his role model and everything! To him...you will be his world! Everything he needs! He will always have you to rely on! Us girls here are here to support you too! So don't ever feel alone because you are not! 😚😚😚 Xx

That's all you can do hun. My daughters dad pretends to be interested when he feels like it but doesn't actually make any effort to speak to her etc. I plucked up the courage one day to go round his mums and she was so embarrassed by his actions (he had lied to me about telling her and said she wasn't interested in my daughter) then he found out what I had done and that she had given my daughter ££ and flipped! Then found a way for his mum to change her number. The only person he listens to is his older sister and I have been tempted to track her down and tell her but is it even worth it??? You've tried reaching out and if you get ignored that isn't your fault... When your son is older if he asks you to contact them again pls do so if the same happens again eventually he will understand. My daughter is 8 this year and is starting to understand that he is the problem not her. I'm here if you ever want to talk x

@winterbaby95, awwww you just brought me to tears🙊 thank you so much! This app genuinely is amazing, I trust the girls on here more than I do some of my own friends! It's crazy. You've made a horrible situation seem so much better. Thank you honey 💜 xx

@sweetsesame, thank you so much for sharing your story! It makes the whole thing a little lighter knowing that other people are facing the same thing doesn't it? Really appreciate it! I've done what I can do and can't really do anything else so.. But thank you so much! Here for a chat if you need it too! Xx

You're welcome & thank you 😊 when I was going through I had my older sister for encouraging talks as her daughters dad is hardly there. She let me know that I can only do my best for her and myself and not hold any grudges. That's exactly what I've done and she's turned out great. If he were to get in touch tomorrow and say he wants to see her, if try to arrange it. If he fails her again he is only making himself look bad. Love your and support your boy as best you can and hold no grudges. You will be great mom and your son will recognise that everyday xxx

Sorry for the essays 🙈

@sweetsesame, thank you so much Hun! Xxx

@beccastirlingx, you have done the right thing hun. they will miss out as you will have an amazing child. and all the little one will need is you! xx

@felicjuh, thank you so much, she must not have told babies dad because I haven't received a text or a message of abuse. I've put the ball in their court! I'm being the bigger person and allowing them access and giving them the choice! Just so hard! But thank you so much girls 💓💓xxx

@beccastirlingx, don't regret telling her ..... This way you have done hour part and informed them of ur baby boy and now it's their choice she might not have responded un till she speaks to the grand parents etc!! either way you will be a fantastic mum and all your baby needs ... my daughters dad didnt bother at all he's worthless she is 13 now and do you know what in the last year when he tried to talk to her she told him to go away !! that feeling is amazing x

@mrsripper, thank you so much! And really? She's old enough to know now who was really there for her and that was you! That must be a really good feeling! X