Her helmet she got so she can be safe (as she told me) when she rides her bike and scooter lol
FTM problems... So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It's making me sad. Like I wish I could quit my job and be home with her.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Good luck
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
I've heard of that happening also... I'll have to talk to her @mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Maybe someone else hit her and she is afraid to say who it actually is and that's why she said it was your husband that has happened before victims are afraid so they blame someone else
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
That's what I'm thinking I just can't figure out what has happened or what could be happening@mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Something must have happened and she is afraid to talk about it
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
That's what I told my man but her mom takes her to school but her mom doesn't want to deal with yhe tutors at school Cuz I guess when she did enroll her in with a tutor she always skipped and never showed up @mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Hum maybe a tutor will help with school
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
Yes and they said there wasn't anything... we r all just having no clue what to do with her anymore... @mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Have you tried getting her tested for imbalances
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
No she's pretty good with finishing something that she started but school so has alot of trouble concentrating and just doesn't do her hw @mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Does she fidget and have trouble concentrating or finishing a task
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
She makes them and then losses them Cuz she is to bossy... we have told her to stop being so damn bossy but she's not getting it.@mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Does she have friends or anything like that
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
She has no interest in playing anything @mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Hum that's rough does she play a sport that might help
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
We tried that we got nothing out of her @mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Counseling as a family may help
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
Yea I can already tell how much she is struggling but she's choosing not to listen to her mom, dad, or I so we have no clue what to do anymore@mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Yeah I think @patti28, is right that may help and if she doesnt have self structure she will really struggle
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
We don't have enough money for counseling sadly @patti28 and I hope when the baby comes she will have a while new perspective @ltsdiaries
Lashay Franklin·
В ожидании первенца
She's 10... check back with her after the baby is here. She'll have a whole different perspective
Patti Anderson·
Мама четверых детей
@sammie20, maybe she needs counseling to see what's going on
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
And she's doing so bad in 5th grade now that the teachers r saying she has to repeat it.... @mommy2benntley
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
And what really sucks is that if she does live with us next year her dad's making her do homeschool which I won't be Able to help her Cuz I'll have the baby and my SO and her both don't understand how hard online schooling can be... but no they don't want to listen to someone who has been homeschooled all her life.. they will find out for themselves I guess lol @mommy2benntley
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
Yea well she lied about her dad hitting her and shit like that when ik that's false Cuz when she said it happened I was already dating and living with him so she's a pathological lier.. she doesn't understand that lying is bad and that she will be taken by the state if she pulls that again... and I don't think she knows that's she's even lying @mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Oh my my cousin had the cops at her school because she pretended our grandpa was a stranger
Sammie ·
Мама дочки (10 лет), беременна (17 нед.)
Yea that's what I thought but I guess she's been telling her dad she wants a baby sister for years now.. so Idk what's going on in that brain of hers lol. She lives with her mom on week days and then weekends with us so maybe that's why but now she want to come back and live with us... idk how I really feel about that Cuz she's a hand full at times... don't get me wrong I love her to death but she's got a lot of issues expecially with lying to the point where she's got the DCF coming to our house... @mommy2benntley
Ashley ·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
It's probably hitting her that she isn't going to be the only one