Before anyone bashes me for asking this understand that i don't even know how i can feel this way. Im a second time mommy to be. I have lost a few pregnancies and was told that id never carry full term again after my last loss. But I've been blessed with my baby girl who I'm currently 35 weeks pregnant with.
I love my little girl! Im excited but at the same time I'm not. Im petrified that i am not going to be able to bond with this baby like i did my first. The closer i get to having her the more nervous i get about bringing her home because im afraid i wont know what to do.. ( not that i dont know but its like a major brain fart)
Am i crazy or is this normal? I never felt like this at all when i was pregnant with my son.
I feel like a failure as a parent and like im going to completely let my daughter down.
Not to mention i cant even decide on a name period.
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I think what your feeling is normal, especially since you have experienced loss. But as soon as your baby girl is in your arms, you will know everything will be just fine. God blessed her to make it this far he will continue to bless you to take good care of her. If you start feeling depressed or what not speak with your doctor to get help so you can do your best. I hope you have someone close to you to talk too as well.
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