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Sarah
Sarah
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

I just got to work and there is a lady here who comes in about once a month or so and does some part time work. She…

I just got to work and there is a lady here who comes in about once a month or so and does some part time work. She hasn't seen me since I really started showing and asked if she could rub my belly. I politely told her "no", but she was VERY insistent about it. I stuck to my guns and would not let her. I personally find it awkward to have strangers and/or acquaintances rubbing my belly. I really only let my husband and my daughter rub my belly. I wish people would respect when a pregnant lady politely declines you touching their tummy. Just because there is a baby in there does not make it a free for all! It is still MY body! Any other mommies have to deal with this situation??

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missing293user

missing293user

Мама сына-младенца

I had the opposite issue. No one ever touched my belly and it made me sad. :(

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hernandezmommy

Sariena

Мама сына-младенца

same as @alyen2 .

I think strangers are afraid because of pregnant girls blowing it up ! & my whole pregnancy with my first nobody rubbed my belly :( and now this one I have yet to have it done :(

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sarahb518

Sarah

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (30 нед.)

This is my second pregnancy. I guess I'm just one of those mommy's who is more touchy when it comes to my personal space. I have invited a friend to two to touch my belly, but for me, it is such an intimate act that I really only let my husband and daughter feel when the baby moves. It is a bonding experience with the baby and to me that is something that is just for our family. But I also see the other point of view that you guys are saying. @mm ama_tj @hernandezmommy @alyen2

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