ladies i have a question! so if your kid does something and you did not see but a family member does and they hit your kid twice with a shoe wasnt hard but my son is sensitive when it comes to this specific family member getting on to him.. if i was rite there do you ladies think she should have told me so i could discipline my son or was it fine.. now let me say this family has changed with my son doesnt pay attention to him like before and it really pisses me tf off when someone hits my kid if im there!! am i wrong or how would ya feel ???
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yeah they just trying to defend her..u did what any mother would have done..let it blow over a little and then just talk to your aunt tell her you respect her and you didn't mean to offend but it is my job as a parent to take up for my child and punish him accordingly . .hopefully she can relate and respect that you were just doing your job. .plus u pregnant u in momma bear mode times 10
im just hurt everyone is making it seem like im the one thats wrong @maddiemommy
exactly she took it upon herself and it is not her job @jujulove13 u are Def entitled to be mad I would be 2
i also feel as if she should have let me know @maddiemommy
I would only allow a close family member to punish my child if they did something that would harm them and the kid needed an immediate response to his bad behavior.only if i am not around .if it is a lesson that needs to be learned and the child was not in any harm and I am around I would prefer you come and tell me.
i was mad beyond mad but im also hurt everyone says im wrong @brittanycheri
No you have every right to be pissed!! If someone hit my kid hell would be getting a new soul that day!
if anyone hit my child, I would freak out. If my children are misbehaving, I expect the adults around to give them the look and say something but don't you dare raise a hand to my child.
she is my aunt so im guessing aunt also? @sabreycastro1996
@sabreycastro1996. i dont know how to even approach her seeing that she probably wont care and im hurt
@jujulove13, I'd lose my shit. she as no right to hit Your child, nor does she have the right to be calling you and your son names.
@sabreycastro1996 i told her not to be hitting him and she just started yelling and calling me and my son names
I'd be completely livid. I would say something about it so that it doesn't happen again.
@therockamom thats what i say cause i was sitting rite at the couch
@junebug2016 i honestly dont even know if i should message her or not about it because it really upset me and more that sh called us out of our name
Nobody better be hitting my babies, nu uh 😤. Discipline is supposed to come from you, if you're right there, then something should have been said or your attention should have been brought to it.
exactly and my family doesnt seem to think that way they say anyone can discipline but apparently im wrong and me and my son got called out of our name @sn0wmariiee
Omg I hate when my older children dicilpline their 2 yr old sibling and I DON'T allow it if I'm around to much but I know they wouldn't hurt him and he needs it but that's my baby lol... Idk really depends. Only my mom and his siblings really can pop him NOT even spank...
no one has the right to discipline your kid if you are there that is your job not them I would get if they were babysitting and you weren't around and they needed to be yelled at or something but they have no right if you're around
Nobody but u and the father of the child should be disciplining in that manner no matter if u were there or halfway across the world. I wish somebody would hit my kid.
@navywife_west thats how i feel! i feel like if im there in the same room there is absolutely no reason for anyone else to discipline my child :(
I would go fucking nuts nobody's allowed to hit my son unless I say so even if I was or was not there I will do the cprrection
I can't stand for someone other me or my husband to spank my child even more so if I'm right there
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Does your child’s father help with the kids ? My husband does the absolute bare minimum and just told me I’m naggin him because i told him how i felt . Granted I’m emotional but i almost feel like i made a mistake marrying his selfish ass .
I need some advice.. my son acted up in the store and I spanked him and told him not to act like that.. and people were looking at me all funny.. and some lady was judging me how to raise my kid!! I'm very pist! do u moms spank your kids?
@jujulove13, I would wait until i can say something in person to her. If she doesn't respect your decision for your child then there is no reason for her to see ur child